i can't seem to ignore these girls that hate me and have had grudges on something i didn't do for almost 5 years! they glare at me, copy what i wear, how i do my hair, what i do, who i hang out with, tell such mean lies, gossip about me, etc. i'm not good with confrontations. idk what to say to my friends that start hanging out with those girls. it's so annoying. that feeling i get of being scared that i'm going to lose my friends. not good with talking to some1 bout it and hotlines and stuff. any help?
2007-09-21 09:15:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Try not worrying about them. Be concerned with yourself. By that I mean do what is right and good. If you just do what you know is the right thing to do, then the rest will eventually take care of itself. They will reap the reward of their labors as will you. It's the reap what you sow thing.
I suggest that you behave honestly, respectfully, and with a genuine love. You don't have to like what they do. You don't have to interact with them. Further, you don't have to defend honest behavior. Tough it out. If you're right, then who is to accuse you of wrong.
2007-09-21 09:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by Jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act like they dont exist, dont even look at them
2007-09-21 09:25:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if their your real friends they'll help u through it and also act like their not there be concerned of yourself
2007-09-21 09:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by Brad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋