Hello ppl. This question is basically asking for advice. See for a while now ive been seeking help but havnt yet grabbed it. Im having trouble figuring out who i am and fitting in, im not homosexual or anything, not in a million years. I beleive i am paranoid, i think im different to everyone else, people look at me differently and dont think of me as a normal person (when this probably isnt true) but i think it anyway and cant stop. Thats just one problem. Another one is that im having trouble figuring out who i am, theres so many different stereotypes and different trends, cultures etc. i dont have a clue what i fall into, because when i try to be one thing, i see another and want to be that, so really im confused, does anyone else suffer from this? If they have but dont anymore...help me (and please dont say be yourself, cos i dont kno wat that is)
2007-09-21 08:15:03 · 5 answers · asked by echelon525 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I know what you mean. I feel the exact same way, most if not all of the time. I feel like people think that I'm weird or that things I say are weird, even when I know that I'm not. I just feel like I totally don't belong ANYWHERE lol. I haven't sought help for it yet, but I've been thinking about it more and more lately. So, I don't really have an answer for you but I just wanted to let you know that you're not alone in feeling this way :-)
2007-09-21 08:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by putzsgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not wrong to feel like that. People laugh at me for how I can change how I look for what I am doing. This weekend, I will be on the Harley, so I will be in leathers. Sunday at church, I will be in a dress. I am getting ready to meet some friends for supper, so I am headed out in shorts, tank top & flip flops. These are all part of who I am.My friends kid me that I am incognito.
2007-09-21 15:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by Harley Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget groups and fads. Just follow what you have a passion for and eventually you will find people who have a similar interest. If you can't find your passion, give up on life, it is too hard for you.
2007-09-21 15:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by brothabear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM is what you ultimately are ,but pay close attention to everything you are placing after these words of identity.
2007-09-21 15:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by Premaholic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a normal teenager. there's plenty of time to
grow up and see who you really are. "in life brings
experiences and growth."
2007-09-21 15:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by Randall P. McMurphy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋