I just had a baby with my husband, we're going through a divorce. It was my decision and the hardest one I've ever had to make. We've fought for 5 years and even though we have been to counseling, it never got better. Plus, he's very ill tempered so it ended up bringing out the worst of me. There's so much more to the story, but I needed to leave. I don't want my daughter to go through that - and yes, people...I will be giving him as much visitation as he want (which right now, isn't much - he has two other children
But, really....I'm just sad. Can someone give me a virtual hug please??
2007-09-21 08:12:59 · 68 answers · asked by boz4425 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HHHHHHUUUUUGGGGGGG
2007-09-21 08:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by GGLC 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are going to experience some sadness, divorce is never fun and even though it was your choice to divorce does not mean you are not feeling sadness at lost of broken dreams and broken promises. This is natural. From how your marriage sounded like, I feel you have made the right choice. You should be admired for that, it is not ever easy to do what we know is right. God bless you on your journey to heal and move on to a much more better life! Here is a big HUG for you!!
2007-09-21 08:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a wonderful mother, making the decision that is best for your daughter even though it is very difficult for you. Children should not have to witness their parents fighting all the time, it makes them grow up insecure. You can now raise a happy, healthy, wonderful daughter, and hopefully you and her father can work as a successful team. Good luck to you! *Hugs*
2007-09-21 08:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by AnnaBanana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just gave you a hugh hug and am sending positive vibes your way so you should be feeling some good air around you. just because your making the right decision does not mean it feels good and you are protecting not only you but sheltering your daughter from being in an unhealthy environment, so kudos for you and you will find love again and be happy...I promise.
2007-09-21 08:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear that. But I am sure that you made the right decision and you should be proud of yourself. I am sending you a big hug and stay strong. Everything will just get better from now on
2007-09-21 08:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by Malgorzata B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry that you're going through this mess. I know how you feel, been there done that, and it's a horrible feeling. But, in time it will get better for you. You did what you had to do for good reasons. You can't raise your baby in that kind of a atmosphere. I know his other kids are going to have to deal with this too, but, unfortunately you can't take them too. Just stay strong for yourself and baby. And here's your HUG!
2007-09-21 08:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by just me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HUG. I bet your hormones are a mess too. Must be really hard. Keep your head up and know that leaving will be something you look back on and say 'boy I am glad I got out of that when I did'. I am proud of you girl - it is hard to leave. Best of luck.
2007-09-21 08:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by Laurie J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel that you did the right thing, then things will get better with time. So be strong for yourself and your daughter.
Hugs and best wishes.
2007-09-21 08:19:38 · answer #8 · answered by jt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
((((((Boz))))))
Honey, remember, it's better for kids to be part of two happy homes than one unhappy one. It's good that you are taking the high road here and not keeping your daughter from her father.
Some people get along better as co-parents than they ever did as couples. From the little bit I read about your situation, you did the right thing.
God bless you and your kids, and I hope everything works out for you.
2007-09-21 08:24:05 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. GTO 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got 5 great hugs going for you from my wife 3 kids and I
Take care
2007-09-21 08:22:15 · answer #10 · answered by Sorry deleted 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
*virtual hug*
Everything will be fine. You thought about your daughter and you sound like a strong woman. Just keep your head up and keep positive an everything will be fine.
2007-09-21 08:20:30 · answer #11 · answered by youcandoit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋