I've mixed feelings because sometimes I wonder what he's after because I'm not a bad booking or stupid but he's very handsome and sure of himself
2007-09-21 07:51:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Depends.
Are you so well off that everyone is poorer than you? That would make it irrelevant.
Give it a try. The worst it can do is fail miserably, and even in that case no one is going to die.
2007-09-21 07:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, if you have any reservations or doubts for any reason don't make a life time commitment to anyone! Take your time and be sure.
I think that even if you are truly in love, money--no matter how it affects you, is a big stressor in many relationships.
Men especially seem bother by a woman who makes or has more money than them. And I'm sure you are aware that both men and women have been known to take advantage of a spouse with money.
Talk about it, bring it out in the open. Find out how he feels, tell him how you feel about it. Talk about expectations. Figure out before hand how you will handle it.
Good luck!
2007-09-21 08:04:34 · answer #2 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not bad looking and not stupid are good quality's to look for in a person.
Let him know , in a round about way, that just because your family is well off--your not.
Men do like to feel they can take care of their family .So do not flaunt your wealth.
My wife had the mistaken idea I may have been rich---I wasn't and she still married me.
2007-09-21 08:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by Fred F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, what is it you want from him?
Should he be grateful that you dared look at him?
So, besides no money, should he also be with no pride or no high esteem?
I think that if you truly like him you have to like the person he is.
Anyway, how does he know that you're well off, is it because you were making a case of it??
You are looking at this from the wrong angle.
It's not from rich to poor, but from personality, chemistry and feelings. It's either there or it isn't.
Good luck.
2007-09-21 08:09:02 · answer #4 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, your parents are well off, not you. And he is currently poor, but maybe not always will be. I doubt he's after your money, because it's not yours. But he may be after "status". It's a really silly way to live, so watch out for ppl who want to use you, and you need to know that there are many, many more things to life that are unbelievably valuble. The least of which, is money, and stuff. Good luck!
2007-09-21 07:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by S&NFervor4Ever 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It might work can your parents get him a position in the family company? maybe like a vice president position i mean you're accustom to a certain lifestyle and it will be hard to go below your level if he was the rich one i don't think it would be a problem it's harder for women to except doing without.
2007-09-21 08:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's probably after your money. It is often said that men want beautiful women, but will date a less attractive woman if she's rich. but then, he'll have an affair. Really, though, you should try to date someone that is similar to you in terms of background, education, and looks.
2007-09-21 13:26:17 · answer #7 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is True love no matter where your from or what you have. I am the only daughter of a "well off" family. I grew up in the "country club" settings and where everyone drove nice cars. I get married in August to a wonderful man. My Husband to be does not drive a BMW or a Mercedes. His family is from central Siberia. Growing up in Russia, he had nothing to his name. But I love him. We bought our first house,It's small but we love it. It's our own. I love me new lifestyle. Yes we struggle at times with money, But I wouldn't change it for a thing. He loves me and I love him.
2007-09-21 08:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by Bride2Be 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
things can only work if both of you have trust in each other. more importantly if this guy is hardworking and has will to succeed then you will have to support him mentally and emotionally to reach the pinnacle of success. be optimistic..... best of luck.
2007-09-21 08:01:28 · answer #9 · answered by salil 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And I'm sure there are guys who, or whose families, have more money than yours...Pendulum swings both ways.
2007-09-21 14:42:58 · answer #10 · answered by Tonya R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋