how do you know when a 40 year old man is going thru midlife crises ,and dont' say sports cars , there is more to that right??
my hubby just turned 40 this month he is acting distant and always says hes going to leave , read the other 2 questions then you will understand my point...
2007-09-21 07:47:37 · 9 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
read the other two questions that I have posted???????
2007-09-21 07:55:26 · update #1
men dont go thru that at 40 but 50 id bet hes having an affair he will never admit it though.
2007-09-27 16:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by spoodleroo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
I am a 47 year old married man. I love my wife of 17 years very much! But I went thru some issues myself, that she does not know about! I had this girl come on to me who was 1/2 my age!! One thing lead to another and we had a one night stand. And to this day, I regret that decision big time! The good thing is I have not wondered again. For some men, they seem to want to think they are still attractive to the ladies. That they still have it! It really is hard to put into words what you feel to someone because you do not know WHY you feel the way you do yourself! I hope maybe he gets some help from maybe a priest or physcoligist.
I wish good things to you and your family!
2007-09-21 07:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say but its over, you just haven't realised it yet (prob both of you)
don't let this turn it a slow motion car crash
face it deal with it
force the issue
you still may recover your marriage but i very much doubt it
just the verbal threat of leaving shows how far this has gone in his mind
is already gone just can't make the plunge
change is always scary but its not always bad
taking no action is not going to help anything
2007-09-26 23:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Posting the other questions would be helpful
2007-09-21 14:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by Tonya R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i may have missed the other 2 questions
2007-09-21 07:52:54 · answer #5 · answered by justall4ofus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's mid life crisis he more than likely has someone else.
2007-09-27 13:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by cmore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are the other questions may I ask???
2007-09-21 07:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know it think my hubby might be going trough that ...but he's only 25 !
2007-09-28 05:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And where would the other two be?????????
2007-09-21 07:54:07 · answer #9 · answered by that judi 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋