2007-09-21 05:42:15 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
HELL YEAH! MAN I'd B I T C H SLAP HER THEN STICK MY FOOT UP HER @ $ $ AND SEE HOW MUCH $ H I T SHE CAN TAKE.
FZUCK HER!!! oh man I would beat the life out of her! Then him if he even remotely thought about accepting it!
2007-09-21 05:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by LadyD 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are the only one who truelly knows your friend so ask yourself if she was really making a pass or just having fun and made bad choices. If she just cracked an off the wall come on line but didn't mean anything by it because of your friendship than it was probably harmless and she really didn't mean it. If she tried to crawl in bed with him while you were picking up the pizza than yeah, she's really not your friend.
If you have been unfaithful to your hubby and she knows this, than maybe she feels he is fair game also. I guess I would need more info to give a direct answer. Keep smiling.
2007-09-21 05:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by CINDY J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you might want to think about cutting off your mate? Is this the only time a friend made a pass at him? Might want to take a closer look at your relationship with him!! Could be a sign of trouble and you want to get that one cleared up first. As far as your friend make sure you get the whole picture before you cut her loose.
2007-09-21 06:15:02 · answer #3 · answered by mark1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose I'd at least discuss it with both parties to make sure it wasn't just some misunderstanding - (like it happened at a party where your friend was just drunk outta her mind & decided to plant one on your husband as a gag). If it was a "serious pass" ... well, then - if you want to keep them both in your life - you should talk to 'em about how your feelings were hurt & if you feel they deserve a second chance.
2007-09-21 05:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the situation. If is was a slight flirtation and nothing major. nah.. people joke around alot..no hard no foul. but if its a flat out come on. No room for second guessing.. then.. Sorry temptation leads to lust in thought and deed.. Not good. You can state your case and call her on it and let it go or cut it off.. but the determination would be with the conversation of the hubby.. what exactly was the words used?
2007-09-21 05:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by DearAbby 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess it depends on how you feel and if there is enough to work on it. You know her, if she is going through some things, a flirt...think of this. If she is approachable and you want to keep her as a friend, let her know that you know. Based on your relationship you could present it in a manner which you think she will receive it. I know as a human I make mistakes, when pointed out...most days I try not to repeat them. You right to want to address it I am not sure that it has to result in that.
2007-09-21 05:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by mikendaberry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure do! The bond of trust has been broken and you will never be able to let your guard down with her again. Friends don't do that to each other. You are better off without her.
2007-09-21 05:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by Teresa S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you do.
your marriage is the greatest friendship you will ever have and the most valuable
you cannot trust this 'friend' of yours at all she is willing to lose 15 yrs of friendship with you which means she doesnt care about the years of marriage that she can potentially ruin by hitting on your hubby and she doesnt care about you at all
stick by your husband and dump the woman who calls herself a friend
2007-09-21 06:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by jambutty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are flirtatious without intent to snare their target. Making a pass could be anything from arm-grabbing to ripping clothes off. I would need to know more before answering properly.
2007-09-21 05:51:16 · answer #9 · answered by Russ D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's as good a reason as any....she certainly isn't much of a friend (so the significance of the 15 years is nullified). But damn, Lady D went off didn't she?
2007-09-21 05:50:13 · answer #10 · answered by Captain S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely.
Friend for 15 years? Or just someone who has hung around for that long.
Friends don't make passes at friends' mates.
2007-09-21 05:49:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋