I swear dating is so weird and random and crazy sometimes! I was out sat night, saw a hot guy, he say me too, we stared and smiled at each other for a while. I went up to the bar finally, then he came over and talked to me. We talked for the rest of the night. He is really cute and nice. end of the night, he gets my #. Next day i still felt excited about him, but figured, he wont call. he called monday evening. We talked for abuot 20 minutes. He explains he's going home (out of state) wed and will be back sunday. He says, i know it's a week away, but would you want to get together when i get back? Im thinking yes! He said he'd call this monday or tues. So..i cant stop thinking about this guy! I'm thinking good outcomes, bad outcomes, it's crazy. I would rather not think about him at all! Has anyone ever experienced this and it actually worked out? Or do these situations usually blow up in one's face?
2007-09-21 05:29:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i should clarify-he lives in my city, his parents live out of state, he's going to visit them
I dont care if i'd met this guy at a strip club! Point is we met, who cares where?
2007-09-21 06:35:17 · update #1
It seems like you might be a bit possessive and insecure.
2007-09-21 05:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by ranch_tester 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Be careful! Something you said really concerns me---
You stated that he told you he is from out of state and he'll be going home and be back in a week. Before you become all into this guy, you may want to be careful and handle the situation very carefully. You don't even know him at all. He asked you if you wanted to get together with him, right? Did you sound over excited when you answered him? Don't let him know how excited you are or that you're so interested in hin. He may be married-living out of state. Or he could be a serial rapist. ASK, ASK, ASK lots of questions, and get to know him well, and then go from there. Good luck!
2007-09-21 12:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by metalgods 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh that is totally normal! Gosh I get this way all the time! Don't worry and just let your self have fun! Don't get too hyped up or attached even to the idea because then there could be let down since it really hasn't gone anywhere yet ya know? Man I used to always do that and then I was so let down if nothing happened for whatever reason. But just have fun! Remember to play a little hard to get! Like you have to fit him in or something :-) But also make sure to make him feel like he is special at the same time!
2007-09-21 12:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by Marissa Marie 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He lives out of state, so if you break up at least you won't have to face him every day (like those who date in the workplace or neighborhood). But seriously, though, the key is to be a good-hearted human being. Everyone likes a good person.
2007-09-21 12:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by Gordan Freeman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. It's the excitement of a potential love. He did everything right, too, which is rare these days! Seems like most guys have forgotten how to date and it's frustrating when they say they will call and they don't. You try to take your mind off of it, but it's a disappointment.
Have fun on your date! I hope you fall in love. :-)
2007-09-21 12:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by ga.peach67 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whooooooaaaaaaaaa, Nelly!
Slow WAY down, Sweetheart. This is just a guy who might be interested. You're not talking marriage here.
Don't worry so much about "what's going to happen".
Just enjoy if he does call, and if you do go out, and take it slowly. Everything is going to work out the way it's supposed to, regardless. :)
2007-09-21 12:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well why didn he give you his number so you could atleast talk to him and know more about him well not all the time does this blow up in peoples faces but watch out you dont whant to get hurt like that take it from a guy!!!
2007-09-21 12:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by Smerk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont be to happy. You really not know this guy really well yet. If i where you, i would meet up with him at a park or something first. And also bring a freind along for security resons .
2007-09-21 12:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by Master Hoyle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're horny.
The only blowing up in your face will be when he gives you a pearl necklace.
He picked you up in a bar. Do you EXPECT it to work out?
2007-09-21 12:51:37 · answer #9 · answered by stay_fan2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I always think it can be risky to meet a guy at a bar, and (needless for me to say but I'll say it anyway) make sure to be extra careful and safe! (-=
But he SEEMS like a nice guy, and yeah "first date jitters" like the other poster said. I hope it works out!
2007-09-21 12:34:13 · answer #10 · answered by Amber W 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's just the whole first date, potential relationship jitters. I got those everytime I was into a new guy. The whole butterfly feeling is amazing and quite a high. Just relax and enjoy being single.
2007-09-21 12:32:37 · answer #11 · answered by Katzy 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋