I'm a bi girl and i am in a relationship with a guy. I was really happy with my lot then earlier this year I met a gay girl. She was always quite flirty with me! I went to her birthday drinks and she hugged me goodbye and then kissed me on the lips, I went to kiss her back but she withdrew. I then emailed her and she eventually emailed me back. I have continued emailing her although she doesn't always check her messagesbut does respond when she does. She gave me her number so she could get me on the guest list for a club but I haven't called her. I did go to the club last week and I saw her. She came over and chatted to us and took hold of my arm a couple of times but then withdrew quite quickly. I really don't know what to do! I cannot stop thinking about her and feel so guilty about my boyfriend but I think I want to take this further!
I listed this in singles and dating before I realised there is a LGBT forum so apologies if some of you have already answered!
2007-09-21 03:55:10 · 7 answers · asked by Gillian A 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you should feel guilty about your boyfriend, I think her message is pretty clear, she isn't going to have a thing to do with you as long as you are keeping company with him. It would seem she has a good deal more moral fibre than you do.
2007-09-21 04:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa girl! I have been in this life style for years (like 44 yrs. of it) & I am telling you she is only looking for notches on her gun.
She is a tease & once she gets a hook into you, there is no turning back.
If you don't believe me: Go back to the club, pick a spot to sit where you have a full view of everything, & watch how she reacts with others. Bet she does the same thing to others as she did with you.
Once you discover what is really going on you'll be glad to leave that bird in the bush alone.
We are all tempted, at some point, but do a reality check on your relationship. If not happy then move on, but be real careful what you move onto.
2007-09-21 04:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...
Well... I think she's probably doing all of this to let you know thats she's interested, but she doesn't like being the girl that is having something with a girl that wants her but actually has a boyfriend... (haha, dono if that makes sense).
I would be very careful. Someone is going to get hurt in this situation if it goes further without any communication...
Get to know her better. Flirt, but dont lead her on TOO much.
Once you feel more comfortable around her, talk to her about the fact that you want to take it further, but you have a boyfriend...
When you have decided who you want more, choose that person and let the other one down easy.
It sounds like a really interesting situation ;)
Just be careful, ok?
**Email me and tell me how it goes!!! xOx
2007-09-21 04:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly You should end you relationship with your boy friend right away, because as in a straight relationship it is no different you have committed adultery of sort and this is totally unfair to him, you should have told him from the start.
simple he deserves that at the very least. and good luck with you new found life.
Regards
Ryan DiorXX
2007-09-22 16:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking for permission to cheat, you aren't going to get it here. You either are faithful to your bf or not. Is this the first time anyone has ever flirted with you? You are gonna have a hard life if you don't know how to deal with basic temptations...
2007-09-21 04:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She Might be playing hard to get, but I'd suggest you stick with your boyf instead of messing about with a girl who your not sure even likes you.
:)
2007-09-21 04:02:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Issues.....
2007-09-21 04:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋