Person A or B.
A) A person who is not open about their past and keeps to themselves because it's embarrassing and they do ot want to hurt people. They are disowned by their family for being gay and they do not talk about it out of fear that other people will not want to come out of the closet because their life might be just like theirs and the person is more concnered about the well being of others more so than their own.
B) A person who is open about their past and their family and that they want people to know that what happened to them is not going to happen to everybody and they can learn from their experience.
2007-09-21 02:20:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Person B, I think that everyone's experience is different and everyone comes out when they are ready.
2007-09-21 02:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
To be absolutely honest about it, I would have to say both because it takes all kinds to make the glbt community what it is. Yes, B is open and willing to not let what happened to them happen to anyone else, but we really don't know what happened to A to make them who they are. A is concerned for the well- being of others and does not want anyone to go through what they went through, neither.
Sometimes, what we may consider to be silence on the part of others is actually a shout. When we think someone is not doing something to better themselves and others for the sake of strengthening the glbt community, they are, donating money and resources to help. Some are quietly mentoring a teenager who got rejected by his/her family. Some are taking on the responsibility of raising a child, despite the fact that there are child enforcement agencies watching their every move.
So, while we can all respect B, A deserves some respect, too. We do not know the situation that causes the person to be the way that they are. What matters is NOW.
2007-09-24 03:31:04 · answer #2 · answered by Pnthr wmn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B. If you aren't comfortable talking about your past and the experiences that you've been through, how can you get positive insight on the actions that you took? It's always better to be open and never hide anything, because not telling, is almost as bad as flat-out lying.
2007-09-21 02:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by Kyle H 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would say mostly B..but i would also respect A because if u were disowned by ur family for being gay then of course u would be scared others would disown u as well.
2007-09-21 02:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Kyle, some people's pasts are so hurtful that it is best for them to no to go back there. I was embarrassed by my own intrusions once and learned this the hard way.
2007-09-22 05:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Equal respect because the two hypothets present valid reasons for their actions. I prefer B, because I think we all learn from the experience of others, especially younger LGBT people.
Yet another good question. If I were close to your age, I would have to marry you. ;)
2007-09-21 05:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by Clint 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I respect the thoughtful part of them. Thus, that makes me respect both of them. That quality is very precious. And...a person who has that quality can be a very understanding friend or bf or partner. cos that quality shows that the person is a very responsible person. Great personality actually.
2007-09-21 04:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by Max P 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
U should respect everyone regardless. A) is obviously having a hard time with this and should b encouraged and comforted. B) sounds like they have come to terms with their sexuality and have had a great support group to help them.
2007-09-21 02:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Equal respect...if they are nice :)
If some guys or girls need to "stay in" due to personal issues, beliefs or whatever that's perfectly cool.
If others are "out" and want to share the experience, that's fine too.
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2016-11-06 01:00:48 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋