From the time I wake up to when I go to sleep, all I ever hear from her is mow the yard, spray for bugs, edge the drive way, do this, do that. And she freaks out and yells nonstop at me out of nowhere whenever I can't get something done by the time she wants it done because I work 25hrs a week go to school full time, and constantly trying to get my car fixed cause it's always breaking down. It pisses me off so much cause after school and after work the last place I wanna go is home because then I'm gonna get yelled at for not doing exactly everything she wanted, I never hear anything positive from her. and then when I ask her for the smallest favor she can never come though with it, like yesterday I asked her if she could take me to school early so I can make up a test, she says sure, so here I am this morning waiting for her to get ready and we don't end up leaving until school had already started so now I'm not early I'm gonna be counted tardy,
2007-09-21 01:15:48 · 4 answers · asked by nick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and the first thing she says to me is she starts yelling at me for not spraying for bugs yesterday, and after 10 min of yelling she still hasnt stopped so I got out of the car and walked home, cause Im sick of hearing her. I cant do anything like move out cause im only 17.
2007-09-21 01:18:01 · update #1
Sounds like she has other issues and she is taking them out of you. Of course, get your chores done the second you wake up or all on one day and then she doesn't have anything to complain about.
Your 17... soon 18. Finish up HS get your diploma and move out. Get a friend to go in with you on a cheap apartment. I worked full-time and went to college full-time; not easy but it can be done.
2007-09-21 01:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by L A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your frustration. I think you should both sit down and talk. I know that's not always easy but give it a try. Let mom know that you love her and want to help her in any way you can, but that you also have a very busy schedule of your own. Try to work out a plan where you can give her x amount of time for chores and still do the things you have to do. Your school work should come first and foremost. Is it really necessary that you work 25 hrs a week? Is your home fatherless? Is it possible that she has to rely on you more than you think is fair, but she really needs your help desperately? Try to understand where SHE'S coming from too. I'm sure she loves you and maybe honestly doesn't realize the pressure she's putting on you. Good luck and God bless you.
2007-09-21 01:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by kbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to sit down and have a talk with her. I believe you two are adult enough to figure this out.
2007-09-21 01:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by Ricardo W. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sure can move out, but its a cold world out there.
2007-09-21 01:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋