I don't want to go through the same drama i've been in. So if I want to try again, what should I be looking out for?
2007-09-21 01:11:40 · 15 answers · asked by G4L 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
BRAVO . first of all u forget all the bad things happened earlier and start just like u r doing at first time, but with more presence of mind for selection of right person. I wish and hope for the best. u r the one who dare to say and want to correct. after all life is very beutiful, if lived in a positive attitude.
2007-09-21 01:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONGRATULATIONS! Most people are scared to give it another try,the though of it is discarded and they presume that they might just go through the same "drama" as they did before. They lost trust, confidence and hope...the belief that everyone deserve more than 10x the chance and can make improvements in ones life.
Of Course it would be nice to focus on the things that you haven't tried before and make the past mistakes as a guidance to improve your relationships and oneself. It's really hard to say specifically what you should be looking for.. it will all come down to what you want, how you want things to be or how you want your life to turn out to be- how you want to handle relationships, how to accommodate and to interact. Just remember above all else.. This is a fresh start.. don't go back to the past, it cant harm you anymore.. but let it guide you to make your future brighter and more secure- lasting.. Go for your GIRL instincts and try your best not to be clouded with emotions so you can do your best and make the best choices / decisions in your life. If you have kids, focus on them and all of you deserve a fresh start. Remember, everyone deserve good things in life.. and so do you! Good luck, be yourself always and be happy! P.S Try to find a man who will love your kids the same way you love and care for them. respects you, your family and supports and accepts whether good or bad, defend you and love u unconditionally and most of all tries believes that everyone deserves a second chance around and loves and adore you and your children.
2007-09-21 08:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by Pickles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty, character, and integrity. Someone who says what he means and means what he says. Financially responsible. Someone who treats you well because he enjoys seeing pleasure on your face, not because of what he thinks he may get in return.
I could go through a long list of what is acceptable for me, but the more you date, the more you find what is right or not right for you. The most important thing I can tell you...is to never settle.
And when you find someone who is worthy of you, love like you have never been hurt. This alone will bring you much joy.
2007-09-21 09:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same things that tripped you up last time.
I think as a person you can become well aware of what is good or bad in other people and in relationships. Spend some time reflecting and don't be too quick to jump on any opportunity.
2007-09-21 08:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by ironchin@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very easy, 1. look for good guys in good places not beer joints or liquior stores, 2. Keep your clothes ON, if a guy is not willing to wait, he is not worth having. Do these 2 easy things, you WILL avoid the drama.
2007-09-21 09:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easy- Go for someone who doesn't have the negative qualities your ex did. Find someone who has positive qualities he was lacking. Make a list of all the things that disappointed you about him and make sure you don't do a repeat -just with a different guy. And look for respect-at the first sign of disrespect-leave. Make sure you are at a place that you are happy with yourself- if u haven't really discovered who you are do that first. Don't see someone if you're lonely.
2007-09-21 08:24:39 · answer #6 · answered by whisperer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you go back into a relationship, you have to go back with a different mindset. You must be willing to forgive past hurts and change the behavior that caused the drama. Otherwise, it is not going to work.
2007-09-21 09:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure that the person you may be interested in is exactly what you are looking for. Take your time, better to wait and find out if he is a jerk, than to rush in and find out he is a jerk. Learn to appreciate yourself and do what is best for you in the Long Run! Rushing in never helped anyone!
2007-09-21 10:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by chefddr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONGRATULATIONS !!!!!!!!
This kinda stuff always makes me happy
my sista ( not litteraly blood related ) but anywy. shes 23 and she really got scared to go and put herself out there again !!!!
so yeh just look out for bad signs and
I wish you the best of luck
i hope you find Mr. Right quickly and without any drama !!
2007-09-21 16:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIND SOME WHO LOVES U 4 WHO U ARE NOT WHAT U LOOK LIKE BE OPEN HONESTY AND SATY TRU TO WHAT U BELIVE IN LOVE U BOO xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
2007-09-21 17:00:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋