it feels perfect and natural and "right"
2007-09-20 23:28:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
thats right and dont let any one try to tell you different
2007-09-20 23:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by troyboy 4 · 6⤊ 10⤋
it is definitely in your culture & most others. There is still a debate wheather its in the genes. Let us look back in time from the point where human evolvolution reached stone age. When the role of duties are played base on the physical forms of sexualities of humans & their enviroment. Both female & male share a muture aim not only to reproduce offsprings, but to 'educate' their offsprings & a family is formed. When the female & their offspring played the role of 'being protected" members of the family & staying at home all day & nite, [ without a TV ] being ignorence they adopt the concept of obedience with their protector in this case, the man that is out all day experiencing & learning. The offsprings grew up to take up the same role of their parents & soon a culture was evolved. For so many generation, female had being protected by her man. Culturally, it is only natural to be submitsive if not also genatically. Sorry for the bad english & spealling.
2007-09-21 00:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by braun l 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm glad you know what's right for you.
For me, I like a little give and take on both sides. When it feels out of balance, I become resentful and demanding, which is not good for the relationship. But I don't believe one side should always submit to the other. Life is a a two-way street.
2007-09-21 02:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by not yet 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because I think that submitting to a man is normal for a woman. Just as it is normal for a man to feel protective of women and children. When I was married, I would have killed if necessary to protect her and I would have died before I would have let anyone hurt her.
One of the crucial things is for you to choose a GOOD man so that you can do that with confidence.
2007-09-20 23:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
probably because you are pleasing them and if you make your loved ones happy it makes you happy too.. but the real importance of a good relationship is you both getting pleasure out of the relationship. you are in a partnership so basically not one person should be the dominant one.
from past experience i know it is not always the correct thing to do by yielding to your man everytime he says so, but theman i was in was horrible in the end so obviously didnt care for me.
my hubby is lovely and i would do anything for him, but he never asks anything of me, he is kind and i dont think he would want me to be submissive but i get where you are coming from.
i get a good feeling thru me when i make my man happy, but i wouldnt be his slave!
2007-09-20 23:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you specific you desire to understand the clarification to your behaviors? as quickly as you have made specific discoveries and insights, you will be able to no longer be waiting to pass lower back and stay "the way it particularly is meant to be" anymore. There are loopy issues that ensue to each physique, some have which potential, some do no longer, yet there are those issues that ensue or you observe that boost into unintended, unconcious existence policies of "the way it particularly is meant to be". that are in no way questionsed or examined, those little existence policies are the clarification human beings say issues like "It merely feels suitable", "I might desire to stick to my coronary heart" "i be attentive to it particularly is incorrect notwithstanding it particularly is appropriate for us." and so on the excuses why you're tender with your issue may be chanced on by utilising examining your existence and goals with a series of visits to a sturdy councelor. you will be able to locate the two considered one of you're harmlessly place enjoying, you will be able to locate he's slowly removing your suitable to make any judgements, you will be able to locate why you settle for living 2 seperate lives one claiming to be a Feminist and the different as a Stepford spouse. Do you have expert collegues, college acquaintances or kin who have self belief you're a feminist and can be stunned to take heed to of this different existence? a sturdy councelor might supply help to understand why you settle for a existence that must be degrading and shallow to a good number of girls human beings. no possible determine for you in case you ought to stay living this way yet there are pink flags and warning symptoms flashing all around you. Is he offering you with (no longer procuring you) as plenty interest and attempt to delight you? Alot of folk might ignore approximately all the warnings and merely permit issues pass on a similar, till he strikes on or you're so caught which you will't pass on. NO, No it particularly isn't any longer a compliment to be shown off to different adult men. i've got self belief he's extremely aggressive and you're getting used as a prop to win social factors to he may be "Da guy". So in case you're eye-candy, what happens once you ideal candy coating starts off to chip and choose maintenance? Does he additionally be attentive to there is something interior that candy coating? this may be an quite lonely and empty existence.
2016-10-05 02:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Gina
I think you are right on, the fact is there are many women who are not part of the Fembot gaggle.
Reality is it is normal for women to want to fee protected and men to feel protective. But Since the 1960's there have been several waves of radical Feminist who are determined to force everyone to accept their Idea of normal. But the reality is they continue to fail. But I think it is Important to stand up to them, most of the time they will run the other way.
2007-09-21 00:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by Dud N 1 · 4⤊ 3⤋
That question has a huge answer. Its mostly, for practical purposes a genetic predisposition, but it is indeed physiological. You might want to ask that question in a spiritual forum, and you'll get a more detailed answer.
Not to intrude, but my conclusion is that God did it that way on purpose to resemble His own realationship to mankind
2007-09-21 00:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by Candy 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Yes sweetheart, it is perfectly natural and is a win-win situation... Dont let the witches here brainwash you! I am contacting Yahoo right now to make this a featured question!
2007-09-21 04:08:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
I dont know I only like being dominated by a man during sex. It feels good I think because they are bigger and when they are on you you feel so protected
2007-09-20 23:32:30 · answer #10 · answered by SmEllY! 6 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Because you are a submissive, and possibly also a masochist.
Your feelings have nothing to do with your being a woman. There are also plenty of male submissives.
2007-09-21 02:53:28 · answer #11 · answered by G 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋