I am cluttered in my mind. I have to write things down to know what I'm really thinking or how I really feel because if I just try to say it to someone it comes out all twisted and wrong. People mistake me for stuck up when I'm really just not the kind of person to initiate conversation or want to talk about things I don't really care about. I seclude myself a lot these days; I got burned out on people.. five yrs ago I was a social butterfly, these days I just don't want friends, I think they're too much matinence. I hate sunny days but love rainy days. I like a song because of its lyrics, not the beat... if it doesn't sound poetic or have a meaning, I don't listen to it.
Am I too complicated? I've had a lot of people in my life tell me that I'm just too stressful to be around, or I'm just too different to be with.
Is there anyone else like me?
2007-09-20 19:10:00 · 14 answers · asked by shellj_foxy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I must say you're not alone and enjoying some time to yourself is a great thing. Me time is always good time. What's wrong with paying attention to detail and looking for meaning in stuff right? nothing! Many people listen to songs because they're able to connect with the lyrics. I on the other hand can listen to a song a hundred times and still not know the lyrics because i don't care for the meanings of songs and then when i look up the lyrics i'm like really they're singing about that or wow thats so true and I enjoy the song either more or less. But don't seclude yourself all together from a social life. I think you should still go out there and have fun. Maybe you just need to find a different group of people on which you connect on a greater level with. I stopped hanging out and socializing with my highschool friends because they weren't as serious about life as I was. They're still playing around while I want a career and have other priorities. know what i mean? anyways you're normal but dont forget about finding ppl you can connect with. You have to be willing to be there for a friend though and have their back, its called trust and loyalty which is very important.
2007-09-20 19:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by ~*Steph*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anything you sound creative. I write for a living and a lot of what you described sounds like the kind of mental work I have to do to dig through the clutter in my head to get to a good idea. Lyrics are important. Solitude is a good thing, everything you said sounded perfectly normal. The one thing I would say is keep writing. Some times by putting thoughts down on paper we are able to see what they really mean.
2007-09-21 06:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by longtuesday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not weird, yes part could be depression, But do not run for meds.. You may be a sensitive, and going through an awakening period spiritually. There's many around, they just let advice from the unbelieving or uninformed confuse whats really going on. Music has a big part to play in this, what you are attracted to in the words may actually be trying to tell you something, yea its depressing to care and or feel more on a deeper plane, But it will have rewards.
2007-09-21 02:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL. Yeah you sound just like me. I have to write everything down too! I used to have a ton of friends and I say the exact thing 'it is just too much maintenance' I don't have time. You are not weird you are an individual. I appreciate diversity and I think that it is all these little things that make people so great.
2007-09-21 02:18:23 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are there other people? Yeah. This isn't uncommon really.
Are you going to like meeting people like yourself, probably not.
You said you think friends are too much maintenance, but dealing with a personality like the one you described is much more of a drain, and if you met yourself, you probably wouldn't want to be around you.
You're free to be whoever you want to be, just don't expect everyone else to like it.
2007-09-21 02:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by Xeno 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty of people like you, myself included. Except for the rainy day thing..I rather enjoy sunny days. heh. But yes, I live a very isolated life....
2007-09-21 02:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by %$#! :) :) :) !#$% 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't worry is probably something that is upsetting you or making you nervous all the time. May be if you relax and calm down you will realize what is life like these days.
2007-09-21 02:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie A. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ther`s so many more people out there like you.
i think most people have to write things down lots of times to get things the way they need.
2007-09-21 08:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by kevinjohn34 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you feel alright?
if so, what makes you think that your weird and not, the people you used to hang out the weird ones?!
give yourself some time to meet different people.
don't knock yourself.
maybe your just maturing.
2007-09-21 02:20:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be suffereing from depression or social anxiety. You might want to discuss this with your doctor.
2007-09-21 02:14:50 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋