Haha I was debating this with my husband. He said that a wedding ring on a woman's finger won't stop a man from trying to get with a woman. I disagreed and thought the majority of men, if they realize a woman is married won't even bother. What do you think?
2007-09-20 16:36:22 · 27 answers · asked by stilletto_killers 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm married and I wear a wedding ring . I really don't know but I can tell you about what has happened in my life. When I was first married this guy on a bus tried to get my number and I told him no that I am married. He said so what does that mean. Later he tried to kiss me. Then when I was at work a guy came in to heat headache medicine for his girlfriend. He asked if he had a chance. I told him I'm happily married. he asked me what does that have to do with anything . Things like this happen all the time.
2007-09-20 16:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by NayNay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By your logic, why do you think men marry women? Is it only so that they'll take care of the house for them and have sex with them? If a woman was completely against cleaning anything and was not going to have sex with a guy, wouldn't that repel a guy? Also, what about lazy women who are overweight and do nothing all day? Men aren't lining up to marrythem, are they? People like people who are motivated. It would be hard for a woman to love a guy who isn't going to do anything with his life. How is that going to benefit the relationship? My husband and i both do our share of things. He goes to work and i do chores around the house and make sure everything is taken care of so that he only has to worry about work and then can come home and relax. We each have our part in the relationship. If he just stopped working and lazed about all day i'd be pretty ticked because he wouldn't be doing his part. Just as if i didn't do anything while he was at work, he would be ticked cuz it wouldn't be getting done. I also know a couple who has been married for like 20 years and the guy doesn't have a steady job. He makes pens and sells them when he can. He stays home and takes care of the kids. His wife is the one who makes the money. She's a doctor. So she still is happy with him even though he doesn't make the money because he does his part at home while she is at work. I may have been rambling, but do you see where i'm coming from?
2016-05-19 22:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by annetta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all has to do with your moral character. Some may think of a wedding ring as a woman with sex and no attachment. Others think of it as a band of life long commitment. You could also look at is a married woman is likely the prettier, more likely partner that someone else found. You would be wanted reguardless is you had a ring or not.
2007-09-20 16:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the majority of men would not want to get involved with a married woman because of the trouble it could cause. However, there are still a lot of guys that, when they are really lusting a woman, nothing stops them. I unfortunately ran into several of these guys when I was married. It made me feel sick in the stomach. How can you try to get involved with a woman who is already commited to the man she loves?
2007-09-20 17:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a complicated answer. It all depends on who (man or woman) is craving the most attention. Men hit on women to make themselves feel better. Some women enjoy the attention and flattery. Some people are friendly and others enjoy that someone is noticing them,the person that maybe a spouse has forgotten. I am told by my wife that I am handsome, sometimes I don't believe it. I flatter other women, I flirt, so I can believe what m,y wife states. Sometimes, like yesterday, I got hit on by both a gay fellow and a woman. She was very blunt about it-" I'm lonely."
2007-09-20 17:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by AllisterD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how the woman behaves. Many men feel that "forbidden fruit" is a challenge. If a woman behaves like a lady then most gentlemen will steer clear however, if a woman acts like the ring is just "jewelry" then both married and single men see her as wanting or needing attention and are willing to give it to see how far they can go. Sad to say but high morals are in short demand these days and marriages are viewed sometimes as "temporary".
2007-09-20 16:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by "wheels" 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your husband is right. There are a variety of reasons why. Some men just get turned on by conquering someone elses woman. Others just want a physical relationship with no strings and they know they will get that from a married woman.
2007-09-20 16:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the reason why your husband says that, Because the other man do not have to worrier about a married woman hanging around. ( HIT and RUN)
2. A woman that is married knows for a fact what is right from wrong. so she do not need Tobe opening up her legs to another man or woman.
2007-09-20 16:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by K_LOVE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you, but you are wrong. I am sure it is a first for you. But two types of men will hit on a woman with a wedding ring. This first is the oblivious man who does not notice, and the second is the man that does not care.
2007-09-20 16:43:32 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's so much the ring as the attitude and the vibe that the married person has. If the married person has good boundaries and shuns that type of attention, people will stay clear. If a person has morals, he/she won't even try to come between a married couple; but not everyone has morals, men and women alike.
2007-09-20 16:52:20 · answer #10 · answered by gma 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋