2007-09-20 16:08:26 · 17 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not if your a "door mat" i mean its one thing to sacrafice your own needs and wants for your spouse or family as long as it gets recipricated by your spouse at times, but if it constantly has to be their way all the time, then no u'll never be happy.. part of being married, is being respected by your spouse, and it should be a mutual respect.. and if your taking tons and tons of crap, and getting nothing in return, then ur not being respected.. there is always "give and take" in a marriage but it only works if it goes both ways, some times u give in, sometimes they give in.. if its one sided eventually resentment will build up to an unhealthy point and to recover will be seriously hard to do once your heart has had enough.. so this is something u need to have fixed asap before it gets any worse..
2007-09-20 16:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't
You have to let your spouse know where you stand. What you will and will not accept.
My husband is a grown man. If he wants to do something. He just does it. He doesn't need "permission", and neither do I.
We have been married 9 years, and never even hollered at each other. Don't get me wrong, we have disagreements, but we just agree to disagree.
We go on separate vacations once a year, and a vacation together the other week.
Even lovers need a holiday!
2007-09-20 23:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by Y U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, NO. Even if your capable of loving and wanting to love that person the constant BS is just like throwing rocks at you while telling you to love them. ******* confusing is'nt it? Try yelling back see if it wakes them up.
2007-09-20 23:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See answer to your other question. Explain BS crap. Calm down and look at why she is reacting this way.
2007-09-20 23:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by Linda K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How can BS make you happy ??? Thats impossible
2007-09-20 23:16:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just answered your own question. Lets see, your on here asking if you can be happy? Ummm, id say no.
2007-09-20 23:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by stephensbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, when she does it you gotta keep kissin her and lovin on her like u cant control urself, tell her how sexy she is when shes angry... and show her how better to use the adrenaline. ;) Dont argue back, it's useless.
2007-09-20 23:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are the you should see some help or get divorced.
2007-09-20 23:17:46 · answer #8 · answered by withafunnyheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ITS ABUSE IF UR ACCEPTING BS FROM D SPOUSE
2007-09-20 23:16:05 · answer #9 · answered by pretty black 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept her BS crap naked !!!!
2007-09-21 00:03:40 · answer #10 · answered by Dionannan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋