2007-09-20 16:06:47 · 23 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
in your case its a YES
2007-09-28 10:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what kind of crap it is. If it is abusive than that is one thing. If it just because she is a crab all the time, that is another. If there are tons of put downs and verbal abuse going on, than perhaps that can be taken care of through counseling. Maybe if you let her know how you feel and bring certain things to her attention that may help. Maybe she doesn't understand that she is being the way she is. When a certain thing happens that you don't like, make her aware that her actions and words made you feel a certain way and point out her behavior. Good Luck
2007-09-28 22:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by ang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I don't believe you 'have' to take tons of BS from them. I sure don't. You should find out WHY they are giving you that crap. We all have different ways of expressing our feelings and maybe they're trying to tell you something. When my hubby does that to me, I ask him why he has to give me sh*t or treat me like it....if he has a decent answer, then I let him continue to do (but he hasn't had one yet), so he apologizes and stops. If he gives me crap cuz I'm treating him crappy, well I guess I would deserve it. If someone truly loves you, they wouldn't KEEP treating you that way...love is about RESPECT. Treat people how you want to be treated.
2007-09-20 23:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by Lei Back and Relax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,Ive been married for 4 years and I dont give crap to my husband and If I have a problem I just tell him whats wrong.You just need to open up and have a long talk about whats bothering you.In a relationship of any kind nobody should sit back and just take any harsh treatment of any kind.If it doesnt get better after you sit and talk maybe try going to a marriage counselor.Good Luck to you:)
2007-09-20 23:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by superstar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO NO NEVER DO THAT this is why men get away with absolutly everything because they think they can and alot of times do have you ever seen a man that has been put in his place by a woman he is ready to kill why? because they think there superior I have heard more men say women are inferior to men than i can shake a stick at I love proving a man wrong it totally makes them sick
2007-09-26 18:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by famousamos075 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should describe the BS crap you are talking about. Maybe it's not just BS. Maybe you should look at yourself and see what is causing this. You don't give enough information to answer the way it is.
2007-09-20 23:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by Linda K 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO. Because if they loved you back TRULEY then they wouldn't be putting you through tons of BS and crap
2007-09-28 13:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by Tears are *Diamonds* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE!!!!!
If they truely loved you back, they wouldn't give you tons of BS and crap
2007-09-28 19:25:30 · answer #8 · answered by tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly loved someone and put up with tons of it only to find out that he didn't truly love me. If he had he wouldn't have put me through that stuff.
2007-09-28 13:38:19 · answer #9 · answered by Merrie S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, that's how you make a relationship work. You put up with all their crap. Good crap and bad crap. Love her through her shortcomings and appreciate her when she does good.
2007-09-20 23:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no that is where sometimes someone can take advantage of you if they are not as in love as you are. if its bad then sometimes you are not marired just walk away and find someting else. you will in time find someone who really loves you and you will see the biggest difference in the realtionsship.
2007-09-27 21:17:58 · answer #11 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋