Which do you usaully go for in a person the mind or the looks?
Honestly I go for the looks first then mind I think thats just because im younger but im sure with older people its different.
2007-09-20 16:00:20 · 15 answers · asked by ☆DUH☆ 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well you always judge a person by their looks first... it's just how a person thinks, but when you really get to know them you will judge their personality... from there it will either be you like him or you don't.
2007-09-20 16:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lot of people say personality, alot say looks.. Honestly speaking, everybody at one point goes for looks first.. And that dos not mean one is shallow, the older you get, looks tend not to matter that much, but they still do, and most people who say they don't are lying.. Rhetorically speaking, if a person who was not attractive at all were to approach you, would you even consider talking to them (on other levels)? And people always say is about personality and it is.. But come on. You can not tell how someones personality is on first glance.. That takes time to figure out after you actually start conversing with the individual... So that looks doesn't matter BS is over-rated..
Now I am not shallow... I feel as though they should be balanced.. But I DO tend to take notice in appearance before anything else...
2007-09-20 23:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by Nae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that`s what a lot of people do, not just only younger people the older also. but the main thing i would be looking for is someone wholesome. thats good for me. looks are cool but can`t trust most of them. take your time and get to know this person. and then go for it.
2007-09-21 01:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mark G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks will attract me to talk to a person, but if there mind is dull or blank i dont stick around for a minute. I am more attracted to a mind than i am to a persons looks. Im not into superfical facades.
2007-09-20 23:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by Steffie_crumpet89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never spend any time looking for that perfect 10 or somewhere near. They'll never come along anyway.
They can be the most beautiful, but if they have the intelligence of a bag of puke, or the personality depth of Paris ******* Hilton, it only makes them that much less attractive.
2007-09-20 23:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by maersalieri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well looks do spark my interest but if the mind is dull well i eventually start looking elswhere..so yeah i would say..body first then mind..but there are times i find mind actually gives interest to body after awhile..like some of my ex gf i never would if given the time of day but then after getting to know them better many of their qualities became apparent and i began seeing them in a different light eventually falling in love with them..its weird i know but it does happen cause it sure happened to me..
2007-09-21 04:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by Charmer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm all about personality. Looks are just a perk on the side. If she isn't bright enough to keep up with me and if she can't laugh, then NO WAY. If she can, great!
2007-09-20 23:05:25 · answer #7 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I first notice a person by looks. However, if they have no personality, then I move on.
So yeah, personality matters most to me.
2007-09-20 23:14:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not in the case of one then the other it's trying to look at them both in a blend to find the true person they are.
2007-09-20 23:06:18 · answer #9 · answered by midnitepoets 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not gonna lie I like looks but I've grown up to realize looks are not what matter but you have to be at least look cute but other then that I love me a nerd
2007-09-20 23:06:56 · answer #10 · answered by Matra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋