I've been dating a guy for 7 months. He has an estranged wife of 6 yrs. and 3 kids out of state. I recently came across flirty correspondence between him & his ex-fiancee that's been going on since 2 months before we started dating up until now. He says he loves me & eludes to a future. I'm conflicted--what do I do? Guys: your input is appreciated.
2007-09-20 15:58:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
" Estranged wife "---- no divorce after six years. " Flirty correspondence " with his ex fiancee? And he has you.... wow, it appears your boyfriend has a candle burning in three open windows of opportunity. He eludes to a future-- is that what you want? A future with someone unwilling to let go of what should be in the past?
Sometimes what's good TO you isn't necessarily good FOR you. Blow out your candle Sara.
2007-09-20 16:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by uber empress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He's a liar and a cheat. He hasn't been honest with you. That's probably why his wife left him. Oh, I know ... he probably told you HE dumped his wife! Well, just remember, there are two sides to every story. I once married the guy who told me a nice sob story about why he divorced his wife. I married him and less than two years later, I totally knew why she dumped him.
2007-09-20 23:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you have 2 or 3 kids he will leave you stranded on the side of the road.
2007-09-20 23:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry, honey. This guy is playing everybody, and getting all he wants from all. If you will take some advice from an old man whos seen it all, DUMP HIM fast, hes just bad news, and will leave you for the next one whose willing. LOL
2007-09-20 23:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by jms043 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
darling i think you knew that u should dumb him..dont waste ur time...words "love" "swear" "promise" is cheap for this type of guy..follow the advise from the people in here..they are right...i got a similar problem like you before...its hard to leave some one we love and of course u wanna to trust him.
but u also know its cannot be trusted..leave him is the best way..u will be ok..
2007-09-20 23:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by lets talk-now w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you and wants to be with you he needs to make a commitment. Do not allow things like this to happen this early on in your relationship or it will always be like this and you will always come second.
2007-09-20 23:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So was it recently came across or were you snooping? Either way you'll have to bring this up to him and find out where you stand....Bottom line is you either trust him and believe him or not.....So he flirts with his ex wife...There are far worse things....
2007-09-20 23:03:22 · answer #7 · answered by theanswerman 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This guy is going to hurt you mentally and emotionally, get rid of him. He'll hurt you badly no matter what he says. Don't let yourself be played. He's already probably done it to others as well.
2007-09-20 23:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by tercentenary98 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You gotta kick that guy to the curb. He still lusts in his heart and will haunt your relationship. Sorry, but he is NOT worthy of you or your time!
2007-09-20 23:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by jersey girl in exile 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you didn't give us too much to go on, except the part where this guy seems to go through women.
Get in line.
2007-09-20 23:02:49 · answer #10 · answered by brando4755 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋