2007-09-20 15:51:59 · 5 answers · asked by LOie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
DON'T SCREW NOBODY ELSE!!!
2007-09-20 16:00:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, you have to decide that you want to be in this relationship for the long haul. If you can't make this decision, you do not have the ability to make a long term commitment. So let's assume that you are sure about this. You've made the decision. That's the easy part. The hard part is sticking with that decision on a day to day basis: When your significant other is sick, tired, depressed, angry or otherwise in an undesireable emotional condition, you stick with them anyway. When the house is a mess, the bills aren't paid, the roof leaks, the car is broken down... you hang in there and work it out. When you see that really attractive person at your workplace, you remain polite, professional, and distant. When you are at your wit's end with everything, you tell yourself that things will improve. They will.
You see, commitment has little to do with circumstances or emotions. It has to do with love, and sometimes the object of your love becomes quite difficult to love. It is your job to act in a loving manner even when you don't feel like it. It doesn't mean that you each contribute 50% to your relationship. Real commitment requires 100%. I have been married to my husband for nearly 24 years. We have been through everything listed here and more. My husband has loved me through some very difficult times, and I him. We have a love and a bond that I never could have imagined was possible. It has been well worth it.
2007-09-20 16:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Committing into a relationship isn't pretty easy as you might think.
Well, the first way, know your feelings first, ask yourself, "Am I really willing to spend my time with this person?"
When you've got the answer, consider this:
Do you have enough space and time for the relationship?
Do you really love the person?
Do you really have the will to continue?
Are there anyone trying to stop you?
As always, you need to show your love and passion for the relationship. You need to show it's value to your partner.
And simply love really, coz if you don't, I assure you, it won't last long. Remember, if you cannot survive in a relationship in a brief span of time, how about a life time???
Good day!
2007-09-20 16:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by Michael John M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its so easy ,, Love Fidelity Honnesty Respect Dialogue Quality time together every day
2007-09-20 15:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by lala 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By placing this person above any other - letting them know you are truthful, loyal, invested in your life together.
2007-09-20 16:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋