i have nobody, i feel alone. life is really hard and its getting harder. people are talking rumors and its coming from the people who i tought i could trust the most. it hurts. ive stood my ground and now its my turn to get something back but no.. i have yet to recive nothing but lies and hurtful words. im my own bestfriend and my own worst enemy at the same exact time. i really need help. so please.. someone try to help me. =(
2007-09-20 15:45:53 · 7 answers · asked by brokenintopiceses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't know you but listen and listen carefully. The kind of person you are will ultimately determine what kind of friends you should have around you. The best way not to live life alone is to get involved. If you are a christian get involved with activities in the church. If not volunteer at an activity in school be it sports or welcoming graduates or join your schools departments activities. someone will notice you and become your friend. Give and it shall be given to you. Give, share a little of your time helping others and i guarantee that someone Will invest their time with you.
2007-09-20 15:54:50 · answer #1 · answered by olajideojel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always darkest just before the dawn. You sound very depressed, perhaps in need of professional help. Without knowing you and your experiences it is hard to recommend something. People of faith find solace in their place of worship. Others with friends who might not be near but would be glad to talk on the phone. You need to be around someone of good will and real interest in you and your difficulties. Think long and hard about someone who has been sympathetic in the past and find out if they are available. Good Luck to you, keep your chin up. Others have been where you are, and worse, and came out OK.
2007-09-20 22:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there. =) oh what a lovely place to be when people are continously talking shyt. honestly *** them- that is the state of mind you need to be in. No one has the ability to make you feel hurt, unless you allow them too. Give it no attention-dissmiss it. I know.. easier said that done.. but not really. There are plenty of people- do you really think that this situation is going to depress you forever? in a year? look back on shyt that has happened in the past that you probably got hurt about... are you still sad about it.. most likely not. most people are bullshit.. thats what they are -- thats what they talk.. Do what you do- dont let people bring you down. Live it for you my friend. its your life.
2007-09-20 22:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by Yari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about what they say,they wouldnt say it if they knew you would just brush it off,but they know you care and you want their approval and the truth is you dont need anyones approval but your own cause at the end of the day all that matters is you did what you was supposed to.
let them talk their mouths off
2007-09-20 23:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu are alone because you do not know how to cmmunicate Get apersenality course
2007-09-20 22:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by lala 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can help yourself easily. it's no coincidence that what you are thinking is coming true. change your thoughts to what you want from life and i promise it will come true.
2007-09-20 22:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be your friend. cheer up. ;-)
2007-09-20 22:56:02 · answer #7 · answered by music soothes the soul ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋