Please use lots of details. What age were you? How long have you been married? Are you happy now? Please tell me your reasons with lots of DETAILS.
2007-09-20 15:20:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was a single dad, 2 kids & she was the 18 year old child care giver, I was 35. I was gone 3/4 days a week, she took care of every detail w/kids. OOPS then we started messing around, she said she was pregenant, her family were big wigs in the Morman church, and she had brought shame to them!?!? She was great w/kids, so I married her, (OH OH), She turned into the wicked witch of the west, to the kids & i, so guess what, another divorce. Treat me bad, I can take it for a little while, treat my kids bad&its curb time. That was nearly 20 years ago!! My kids and I are doing great!
2007-09-20 15:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by happywjc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many men AND WOMAN have gotten married even though they were not in love.
If anyone ever gets married for any other reason than love then their marriage will be a living hell. The truth will come out during the marriage and payback will be a b i t c h.
It's very stupid and very immature. It ruins an important part in their life and they miss out on something so excellent and so incredible. They miss out on true love.
2007-09-20 22:39:57 · answer #2 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman, but I want to answer this one. I got married because I liked the person my boyfriend (now husband) was. I got married because I was lonely and ready to settle down with one person. We met and got married in 4 1/2 months and I must say that is the craziest thing I've ever done. I knew BEFORE I got married that I hadn't taken the time to connect with him on an emotional level. We have already connected physically (sex) but not emotionally. I went off what I saw on the outside and not on the inside. He seemed to be such a sweet person, and he still is in some ways, but I can't say that I really took the time to love him like he was supposed to be loved. You cannot say you love somebody in 4 1/2 months, I'm sorry. You can think you love them or you can think you can make yourself love them but it's not true.
2007-09-20 22:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Loved her, but not *in love*. I was determined to not be in relationship flying with two eyes closed - that's my definition of *in love*, when you turn a blind eye to the REAL issues.
As it turns out I married a really immature woman. After our son was born she wanted to use the role of the housewife as a reason why she didn't need to be responsible any more; wrecked a business we were starting; and has since moved out back to her dad's.
I miss her, but I also have to see things for what they are; she's 33 and used to having mommy and daddy fix her problems in life. I refused. Mommy's gone now (bless her heart) and daddy's in for a big surprise on just how irresponsible his adult child is.
Sh--, for all I know, he already knew and couldn't wait for somebody else to come along and foot the bill.
So much for being in love!
2007-09-20 23:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by Shell Answer Man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋