I been with my boy friend for about a year we been trying to have a child but no luck i know its not me because i am so easy to get pregnant. i know from my pass relationships i had no problem. i have a daughter but not by him he have a son but not by me we are trying so hard to have a child together he would not go to the doctor about this
please especially men what can i do
thank you, thank you i appreciate it
2007-09-20 15:05:25 · 6 answers · asked by Aries 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
you asked a question a couple of days ago about what you should do about a mean boyfriend. is this really someone you want to have a child with. i don't know you, but I'm sure you deserve someone who treats you well. you already have one child by another man. take your time with this one. having a baby with him won't make things better and it won't make him stick around. take care of you and your child and find a man that loves you, treats you well and who you can build a goo dlife with. put yourself first.
and 5 months is not a long time to try. you probably just aren't timing sex properly. since you guys don't live together i'm sure that make sit hard. anyway, i'd delay the baby making. i don't want to preach but i know many women that have been in your shoes.
2007-09-20 17:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by Roc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a little time - I'm at month 4 of ttc and nothing as yet. If you are keen to see whats going on maybe visit a doctor at 6 months. If your partner is not keen to go then there are sperm test availble on the net - my partner took one because he was too shy to visit the doctor (he may have to eventually anyway) but I thought the less stress on him and me the better. I'm going to give it 6 months (I'm older so in a hurry) before seeing a specialist.
Good luck and I hope all goes well for you.
Oh and Debbie - if you are 'uncomfortable' giving advice to an unwed couple - then don't. No one is forcing you.
2007-09-20 16:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by Buggirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes most women 1 year to conceive. If after a year of trying then you should go to a doctor. Some women and men just can't make a baby together. It's called secondary infertility. Having sex every day lowers a man's sperm count. If your wanting a baby then have sex every other day and go for 1 week without having sex at all so your man can build his sperm count up. 85% of couples concieve within 1 year of trying. Some women take up to 2 years to get pregnant.
2007-09-20 17:29:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax....the more you stress about trying to become pregnant the more you stress your body out!
It will happen. Just enjoy the process of making a baby and don't turn it into a science experiment.
I got caught up in the ovulation kits, temps, etc...until my friend told me just relax and look for "egg whites". So I did and got pregnant the next month.
Good luck and baby dust!
2007-09-20 15:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for a healthy fertile couple to take up to a year to conceive. You've just gotta wait and cross your fingers like the rest of us who are trying to conceive. We've been trying for 10 months, so I feel your pain...
It'll happen when it happens, and not any time sooner, so in the meantime just enjoy trying to make babies : )
2007-09-20 15:34:32 · answer #5 · answered by violet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are female obs and fertility specialists, you know. After you have been trying for a year, you need to visit one.
I'm uncomfortable telling an unwed couple how to get pregnant. I have old-fashioned, Bible-belt morals. If you want to talk about this, I'm open to discuss my beliefs. E-mail me.
Debbie
2007-09-20 15:16:43 · answer #6 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋