I recently got married and I can't stand it if my husband sees a sexy girl on tv. It drives me crazy when we're out and theres a cute girl. It makes me feel so ugly. I never say anything but inside I'm about to explode. I only see him glancing once in a while. And I'm also convinced he has porn hiding somewhere. What can I do to get over this. And I don't want to hear all guys look and all guys watch porn cause I know that's not true. I feel like I'm sabotaging my marriage. I don't want to feel this way.
2007-09-20 15:00:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You sound normal to me , women don't like it when men look around , but then again men shouldn't be , crazy is the man who doesn't want a wife like you , Good Luck you two !!!!!
2007-09-20 15:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you're aware that your reactions are a little over the top and are wise enough to keep it from your husband. at this point there is no sabotage cause you haven't accused him directly of anything. there is a self full filling prophesy factor to watch out for. talk to a therapist or counselor. these things generally have nothing to do with the other person, but is something inside of us. therapy doesn't have to be forever, but sure can help in the meantime. good luck
2007-09-20 22:20:50 · answer #2 · answered by goodcook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may be normal, but it is also not helpful and sounds immature. You should probably see a counselor, not because you are ill, but you can stop this before it turns up in another form. Now you worry about this, then you worry about that. Granted it will go away with time, but why cause unnecessary grief. Also you sound like you need to find some more meaningful or purposeful activities in your own life. Well pray to god and best of luck.
2007-09-20 23:04:33 · answer #3 · answered by robert f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont watch porn but I look at hot women to. If I were married I wouldnt do that nearly as much as I do otherwise. Youll be alright just make sure you know in your heart sould and mind you married the right person if not then move on and divorce
2007-09-20 22:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by stallion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋