well i use to be friends with these girls since like 4rth. people would say oh those girls r the popular girls. i didn't like that. people said that one of my friends was saying mean things about that they all were. so i don't hang out with them that much anymore. all those girls (use to be my friends) like this guy. his name is raymond. he wanted to sit at our table, than they said ewww y is he sitting by them they have no class!! what should do or tell my old friends?
2007-09-20 13:30:42 · 20 answers · asked by Jessica 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is a good time to start developing your own opinion and to stop worrying about what other people think. There will be many other people and many other people's opinions.
BUT,
what do YOU think is the right thing to do?
2007-09-20 13:39:16 · answer #1 · answered by ideaquest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try and make up with them even though you did nothing ( be acuantences ) like hi and bye. DO NOT GET INTO ANY DRAMA that is not the way if you fight fire with fire you only get a bigger fire and you get burned. so i would call them up (indevidually - so no ganging up stuff happens) say im sorry for what ever i did to you but i think it was a waste to ruin such a good relationship because we were best friends since like 4th grade and i hope we can just be atleast friends (really just be acuantents so they dont say any more stuff about you because i think most popular people act as friends to get (secrets ) and act like friends and 5 seconds later they hate you. i went through the same problem been friends since 3 years old :] we got in a stupid fight and didnt talk for a year..... i told her that i was sorry and i miss being friends and hope we can be friends again. sooo yeah watch out for the mean type of popular THEY BITE. now were best friends.
2007-09-20 13:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl305 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to their faces at the lunch table, that they are really humilating themselves, and they are so caught up in themselves, they cant even see it, and that one day when they reach the maturity level you are at, you will be more than happy to be friends with them, as you have grown up, while they are still acting childish, and you just thought you would offer them a tidbit of wisdom, something they too will have when they grow up, and as for talking about people behind their backs, well that is the worst thing, if they continue, tell them you will be forced to tell EVERYONE what they are actually saying about them, and that you will get everyone to confront them at one time. This is what my daughter did a few weeks ago to 3 girls she has been friends with since 1st grade, and now they are in highschool, and now they are all closer than ever, and they all had to come to a decision if they were going to remain friends, or be little children all their lives. GOOD LUCK!!
2007-09-20 13:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by oh really 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do nothing to your old friends. Take the guy, u know they like him so if he chooses you or one of your new friends then it will be a wake up call to them. Even if they say eww and start dissing him, on the inside they will be jealous and that is enough. Just sit back and let things happen the way they want to.GOOD LUCK
2007-09-20 13:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by SBD racing girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know how long it has been since you all were in 4th grade, but it doesn't sound like this is a serious problem. They say "ewww" because they like him, and just want you to think that they don't so they can rule you out as competition.
2007-09-20 13:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Have you heard the saying "with friends like that, who needs any enemies"? It's time to move on to some new people as your friends and let them be as immature as they want to be. They will soon get it.
2007-09-20 13:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by inspector4homes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell them to not discriminate or judge him. Just because he's not as "popular" as those girls doesn't mean he doesn't have class. In fact, I don't know why you're hanging out with such mean people.
2007-09-20 13:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by sharaont 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealously, my friend, jealousy. u dont have to talk to them and if u do just tell them "so he sat at my table. so what." they are jealous of you and thats why they said yal have no class. make some new friends and move on. those girls prove that they arent goodfriends. move on.
2007-09-20 13:38:44 · answer #8 · answered by Nan1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want those people in your life? Trust me after school you will not give those dweebs a second thought.
2007-09-20 13:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by Glinda W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about them until they grow up they will always be lame..obviously your better then them so just do ya own thing..hang with poeple who are the same
2007-09-20 13:38:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋