I've noticed that as I get older women become more attracted to me. Not just women my own age but much younger women. In fact I was at a wedding recently where the bride was 20 and the groom about 48. Strange eh?
2007-09-20 11:53:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
no i dont find that strange at all i am 24 and my partner is 48 we have been togther 6 years and has nothing to do with the size of his wallet we are both well off and have two children.
why is there a big deal made about younger women and older men there is never anything about younger men older women
2007-09-20 12:03:36 · answer #1 · answered by keirah™Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I my second husband was 12 years older than me and my husband now is 5 years older than I am.
I think the thing about older men is that they are more experienced, patient and relaxed with women.....they never seem as stressed out with women as younger men do, like trying to make a perfect impression....with an older man it's like they are more comfortable with who they are and don't put on any show or pretend to be what they aren't. You don't have to deal with any of the "growing pains" that you go thru with a younger man when it comes to sex.....older men are usually more comfortable in bed, usually know right what to do to satisfy a woman or will ask, where a younger man tends to be more focused on his own pleasure and less on a woman's pleasure or you end up having to teach him, or he's too embarrassed to ask what turns you on.
Older men generally are more settled in their careers and more comfortable within themselves than younger men. As alot of other women, I find that a big turn on. I have neither the time nor the inclination to take on a "project" such as a younger man (I mean, if I was single) when I can get alot more with a sexy older man.
2007-09-20 12:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jenyfer J 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Older men are more confident in themselves and established in their career, thus they usually make more money. But I think there is another reason, as men age, a lot of the young agressive behavior goes away and makes them more 'housebroken'. They are also more attentive lovers and will actually listen if you have something to say. The fact that sexual prowess declines as men age actually works in their favor sometimes, making them more pleasant and safe to be around. Young guys are usually spending a great amount of time and energy trying to figure out how to get your skirt off, regardless of the consequences.
A mature younger woman can find these qualities attractive.
2007-09-20 12:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by robert s 1 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Younger women are attracted to older men for the following reasons:
An older man is expected to behave in a more mature capacity than their younger counterparts.
An older man is expected to be more established and more prepared to care for a family.
An older man is expected to know how to treat a woman, and appreciate their company, and in the case of significant age difference, appreciate their youth.
Lastly, the young women may be looking for a father figure of sorts, and naturally that would be found in someone older than they are.
2007-09-20 12:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Because men our age are immature. Men and women are up to10 years apart as far as maturity. Also, there is something sexy about a man who is still attractive as he ages. Most men aren't as good looking once they get older, but men such as Robert Redford and Pierce Brosnan are old but still attractive. Now that is impressive, and it's kind of a turn on.
2007-09-20 12:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by princesspink 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Can you tell the women down here that.I'm thinking of joining the
priesthood to get a bit.
2007-09-20 12:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by angler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, young men like play, then they make feel u unsafe, they don´t know how be with a real woman, just they are tasting, they are learning and many times women don´t like teach.
2007-09-20 12:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Graham 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
not really -- its kind of standard female psychology. women are usually looking for providers -- biologically women pick men like lionesses pick lions -- you want a protector for your offspring -- its not like guys that are checking out the trunk. with our upside down economy men in their 20s can't compete with men in their 40s on the provider thing.
2007-09-20 12:02:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
I could be that the younger woman reminds the older man of his lost youth.
And the older man reminds the younger girl of her father ???
2007-09-20 12:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by SUPER-GLITCH 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Its because as men mature they realise they have to actually be nice to a woman to get sex.
And it takes them a while to work that out.
2007-09-20 12:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋