Would you remain friends with them, stop being freinds with them, feel different around them or feel the same around them?
2007-09-20 11:25:35 · 22 answers · asked by truly_blessed80 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'd be happier knowing..it means the person trusts you with the information. Other than that, I wouldn't judge.
2007-09-20 11:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by red 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe what you don't understand is...that just because someone has a different sexual orientation than you do, it does not make them a different person than they were before you found out. They are the same people they always were. The only difference is...you now fear them for some reason. Perhaps that is because you have fantasized about what it would be like to be with them in that way. What makes you think they want to be with you? If they didn't before, they probably don't now either! Don't think so highly of yourself. Seriously though...you are just fearing the unknown. If they did come on to you, it's very simple. If you aren't interested...just say no. You do it the same way you turn down anyone else that you aren't interested in. If the LGBT person is a parent or a child, remember...you loved them before you knew. Now you know. They haven't changed. You did.
2007-09-20 18:41:23 · answer #2 · answered by L.A. H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to have sex with the Lesbian. I would have the homosexual bring all of his "lady" friends around and have non-stop 3 ways with the bisexual. Is that the answer you were looking for?
2007-09-20 18:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They'd still be my friend. If anything, I would glomp them tightly, congratulate them for doing something so terrifying, and proceed to chat with them about what they're preferences REALLY are, now that they've come out. And if it was someone that I'd been crushing on for a while who just revealed that they leaned my way, I'd probably try to butter them up enough to ask them out.
2007-09-20 18:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by silvrene~chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are still the same person before u found out they were gay. If u remained friends with them before they are no different now.
2007-09-20 18:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that!
I was VERY surprised, but it did not affect our friendship. He was bisexual, but had been very homosexually active during school. He didn't "come out" until after he left home and joined the military, and after his girlfriend aborted his baby.
He died of AIDS several years ago. Sad story!
2007-09-20 18:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by MamaBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say one of three things...either :
1. "Well that explains why you're in the clergy!"
or
2. " Well that explains why you're in politics"
or
3. " Well i guess that explains why you were such a gay-basher in high school...drove a big truck and had so many girlfriends at the same time...yet committed to none..."
2007-09-20 18:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, are you kidding? This is the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered area. What do you think we would do? We would welcome them into the fold!
You are not who you sleep with. We are each individual, unique and special snowflakes. If you like your friend, you should be her pal no matter who she sleeps with! Does she care that you are hetero?
2007-09-20 18:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by Auntie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine came out a year ago (i was straight at the time) and i was perfectly fine with it. It wasnt really suprising.
2007-09-20 20:23:06 · answer #9 · answered by redx000x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was their friend initially, I'd throw a huge party and kiss them right smack on the mouth!
2007-09-20 18:32:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋