yes i did with baby #1 i was 18 and found out i was pregnant i decided i was not going to be with the guy anymore but then I'm pregnant he took it bad and when i dumped him he abandoned me all alone i decided to keep her and it was not easy i had a really bad pregnancy from bad to worse which ended in me being induced due to preeclampsia i then had the worse labor ever and had post natal depression after and refused to look after her my mum was there for me and took over until i was ready which i did when she was about 4 months old with it being my first i didn't have a clue what i was doing but with my mums help i now have a healthy 9 year old and i don't regret 1 minute off it
the father pays child support but still does not play a part in her life sad i know but that's his choice not mine
it happened again with my second child this time i had a good pregnancy and was with the father for a while during the pregnancy and after i had him but it all ended badly and he now does not see him either im with my current guy Ive been with him for 3 years and im expecting my 2nd baby with him next year we are really happy with each other its just a shame i didn't meet him sooner hes the one i was meant to be with
what ever your going through will turn out the way its meant to be with or without the father you will be a good mum
good luck
2007-09-20 09:54:28
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answered by ♥ mum of 4 ♥ 5
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Here's my funny story. I was home alone, nine months pregnant, and decided to have a bowl of soup and sit in front of the TV on the floor next to the coffee table. Everything was fine until I needed to get up. I couldn't reach the phone, I couldn't pull myself up. I was in between the couch and coffee table and just sat there for a while. I eventually got on all four, crawled over to a chair and was able to pull myself up that way. I wasn't in labor yet but it was a little scary, thinking I was going to have to stay on the floor until my husband came home which would have been 3 or 4 hours later.
2007-09-20 16:45:30
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answered by Precious 7
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My wife died tragically when my oldest daughter was 2-1/2 years old, and my youngest daughter was 10 months old.
While, obviously, I have never been pregnant, but certainly felt alone as a widowed, single father. Trust in God, don't lose your hope and dreams, rely on family and friends who are willing to give you support, and don't let your pride get in the way of receiving advice and help. Things have a way of working out for the better.
2007-09-21 11:48:33
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answered by Anonymous
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I was 14yrs.old when I got pregnant & my boyfriend left me . My father told me to get an abortion on the day of my b-day(I was15 yrs old) but I was 6 months preg. He tried putting my son up for adoption. My parents divorced and my mother,sister and I moved. My mother really helped me a lot and I thank her every day for being there for me. I met a wonderful man who is going to be my husband.As for my son he is 7 yrs.old going to school growing up each day. Our family is happy and living life each day. This is my story . I don't know how my life would had been without him :)
2007-09-20 16:57:22
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answered by Lina C 2
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Sweetie: stop feeling sorry for yourself! You were the one who had (and I quote directly from a previous questioned asked by you:) "unprotected sex in the middle of my cycle . . ." and now you cry about it?!! What DID you expect - NOT to become expectant?! ................................
>>> Lina C: Well done - a great positive attitude. Laudable! (and I am now very sincere and NOT sarcastic as above . . . !)
2007-09-20 17:19:05
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answered by Anonymous
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you tell us more first, are you alone? have something happend to you? we can only relate to you if we know whats happening.
2007-09-20 16:44:22
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answered by ------------------------ 5
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No.
2007-09-20 16:45:17
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answered by Bill 6
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