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One of my BFFs just got her period and she keeps asking whether she should use a pad of a tampoon, (shes almost 15) My other BFF also asked me, shes using a pad at the moment, but shes had it since she was 13 and a half)

2007-09-20 09:14:38 · 75 answers · asked by xxsugarxsweetxx 1 in Health Women's Health

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Pads are great for girls who aren't very experienced with their anatomy as they are easy to figure out. Tampons are good for girls who want to get to know about their bodies a little more and to have comfortable protection (Great for athletic girls!). You also forgot to mention menstrual cups! Menstrual cups are great for girls who have had about 2 years of experience with tampons first as the menstrual cups require more knowledge about your anatomy. I highly recommend cups to girls who have had a minimum of 2 years of tampon experience because they're healthier for you, environmentally friendly, cheaper in the long run, and they're more reliable than tampons AND pads both!

Most women don't know this (and it's quite sad...) but tampons/pads contain harmful chemicals like Dioxin, Rayon, and Bleach. Feminine hygeine manufacturers think that we, as women, need white and pure products to consider them clean so they bleach their products white. The problem with this is that Dioxin is produced during the bleaching process and dioxin is potentionally carcinogenic (associated with cancer!). The risk is incredibly higher if you use tampons since they are worn internally. Rayon is also a highly absorbent substance that is derived from wood pulp. Rayon harms the vagina because it's so highly absorbent that it absorbs the natural discharge of the vagina and it also upsets the vagina's natural moisture balance. Menstrual cups don't do this because they are made from 100% hypoallergenic medical-grade silicone (like the DivaCup, Lunette, and MoonCup!). If you want to know more go to their websites or google "livejournal menstrual cup" and a bunch of links pop up. To find out more about the harms of tampons go to the FDA's website. Best of luck!

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2007-09-20 12:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ meme ♥ 6 · 3 0

I think they could use both. Use tampons when wearing tight fitted clothing, thongs, and bathing suits. Wear pads when wearing light colored clothing, dresses, and skirts. Use your good judgement when choosing what to wear with what.
But if they don't want to wear both, than pads are a definitely good way to go, because you're not at risk for that toxic shock syndrome as you would be wearing tampons (even though its a low possibilitiy). Plus it will let everything flow out freely instead of clogging it up. I noticed when I use tampons and my period is supposed to be over, there will be an extra day or two of minimal spotting from what the tampon has clogged inside. Plus if they are heavy during this time, pads will soak up everything a lot better.
Another piece of advice is, if your friends are worried about the whole virginity thing and using tampons, tell them that you can use tampons wether you are a virgin or not. It won't take their virginity away.

2007-09-20 09:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by Angela M 2 · 1 0

Pads should be mor comfortable for the daily use when having the period.
Tampoons are best if you are going to do some exercise, like swimming or running and other sports where the pad won't be as comfortable. Then it is what kind of pads are used. You can find ones which are very thin and can be used for various activities without causing any uncomfortableness.

2007-09-20 09:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by domenic x 5 · 0 1

If she is just starting to get her period she should go with pads until she is used to having a period. There is nothing wrong with using tampons from the get go though. It's simply a matter of "experimenting". What I mean is start with the light flow tampon and see if she is comfortable with it. If so then there is no reason for her not to use tampons. All I use is tamps because I find them much more comfy than a bulky pad. I have never felt comfy with thin pads because I just don't see how they could work so I get paranoid in public. Plus to be practical and blunt there is less odor with tampons VS pads, and the outline of pads can sometimes be seen through your pants.

2007-09-20 09:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well If she just started her period, I would say start out with pads until her body gets used to the changes. Then maybe try tampons in 6 months to a year.

Always and Stay free make super thin pads, they are super absorbent, but they are so thin it's like they're not even there. May be a good thing to try out. Oh and go for the wings too.

2007-09-20 09:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

When I was 15, I was using tampons without issue. I think it really depends on the person. If your friend is comfortable with the tampon then it is a lot more convenient. I think pads are a great starting point for most, but the majority end up using tampons. Tampons are especially good for athletes! I would have never made it cheerleading without them!

2007-09-20 09:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by Yoda 3 · 0 0

Pads

2007-09-20 09:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Lin 6 · 0 0

The decision to use one or the other is a personal choice. Pads are easier to use but they can often bunch up and they make activities like swimming unpleasant experiences. Sometimes, they can show through clothing. Tampons are more difficult to use (inserting them takes practice) but the range of activities you can do is less limited. They can become uncomfortable if they are not fully or properly inserted and slide out, especially in women who have had children and are stretched there. It's also not always to tell if they are fully saturated until they start leaking and there is the risk of toxic shock syndrome but if given a choice, I prefer using tampons.

2007-09-20 09:21:26 · answer #8 · answered by RoVale 7 · 1 0

Personally I think pads are disgusting, and always go for tampons. Once on vacation in a 3rd world country I got it and could only find pads as we were in a rual town - UGH! It was the worst most constrictive 5 days ever. I couldn't even go swimming! what a pain in the a**. Besides the fact that you can feel everything, including the gross pad. Never again!

2007-09-20 09:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by slushpile reader 6 · 0 1

It depends on the person and your lifestyle. I only use tampons now, I have since I was 16. Up until then I used pads and I would be miserable during my period....it's not so bad with tampons because it doesn't feel like you're wearing a huge diaper around.... But it's all up to them to decide.

And also, tampons only hurt if you insert them incorrectly.

2007-09-20 10:29:43 · answer #10 · answered by Mish Hell 2 · 0 0

Purely personal choice - obviously if you have to do sports and stuff at school then tampons but if you have heavy periods and can't go nipping off to the loo every five minutes then you want to go for using both together.

If you are going to use tampons then you need to make sure you read the leaflet in the box regarding frequency of changing etc.

There's no great mystery, it's just whatever suits what you're doing at the time.

2007-09-20 09:22:04 · answer #11 · answered by snaffle 4 · 0 0

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