Hi angel baby.
When I was a teenager, I had a few round-trip tickets. The way there was great, and I enjoyed my stay. But sometimes the return trip was heartbreaking.
Once or twice the trip seemed like a good idea, but when I got there I was not enjoying myself at all. So, I took my return trip home pretty fast, determined not to go back there again.
When I was a senior in high school, I was getting an offer for another trip. It was at the same time I was getting an offer, by someone else, for a 2nd trip. I turned down the second trip because the 1st time I visited, he put me back onto the plane early & sent me home, right out of the blue. Now he wanted me to make the trip back again.
I'm no fool. Hurt me once — shame on you; hurt me twice — shame on me.
So, I rejected that offer for what would have been another round trip. I told him I'd rather stay at home for a while with no trips than make an unhappy trip, whether one-way or round-trip.
However, there was this new trip lined up. I had a part-time job, after school; and I had been thinking about that possible trip for about 6 months. I decided to take that trip right around graduation.
I didn't know if it would be round-trip or one-way. I was still 17, so it was not surprising they had been round trips up to this point. I was young; I needed to travel. It was too soon for me to pick a place and settle down.
So, on this new trip I bought a round-trip ticket, where the return ticket was open-ended — meaning I could travel when I felt like it. This way, I could return whenever I felt like it, whether it was quick or long.
However, this time I did not want to return, nor was I sent back. This trip lasted 3 years. At that point, I was asked to stay permanently. I tore up my return ticket and stayed.
I have never come back since then; it has been the best one-way trip of love I have ever had. Even though I had just turned 21, I knew I wanted to stay.
I was supported in all ways. I went back to college, got a nice career, and had a nice life. I'll never need/want a return flight.
However, it is always good for women to be capable of traveling on their own. Sometimes the trip becomes dangerous, surprisingly so, completely unexpected. If the women is not financially independent, she can end up stuck where she does not want to be, with no way to return.
So, the best way to enjoy the one-way trip is to remain an independent person, one who shares her life with her partner, but does not become dependent & helpless.
If the trip is one where the 2 people share and enjoy each other's lives, then it can be a wonderful, permanent stay. There may be times, once in a blue moon, that you feel like buying a return ticket; but that feeling passes quickly. Mostly you enjoy being where you are, and the person you are with does all he can to make sure you are happy where you are.
There should only be 1 one-way trip; and it should last a lifetime.
Peace.
2007-09-21 03:07:30
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answered by palemalefriend 5
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I haven't experienced this yet, I do like where I live but would I be willing to move away I can't really say yet. So at least the first time meeting is round trip and maybe many times after but with love blooming I could see it turn into a one way trip.
2007-09-22 07:35:36
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answered by Wade C 5
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i like round trip because i want to come home. its usually cheaper, too.
2007-09-20 16:09:11
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answered by Queen of the Dachshunds 5
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when it comes to love I book it one way,because I go into it not looking for the end.weither or not it is going to end,I go into it like it will be forever.and forever is not here yet so I'll let you know how it all turns out. : )
2007-09-20 22:17:35
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answered by To-Dream-of-Wolves ^. .^ © 6
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