Please dont throw the usual lame... oh you dont want her to compare you with her ex-lovers.... Maybe I dont want my children to be kissed with the same mouth that kissed a bunch of dudes' ___?
2007-09-20 08:49:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Dorian, I hope you're not talking about my mouth because if you did I will have to kick your ___
2007-09-20 09:00:01 · update #1
Melimar, I very very rarely go downtown so your whole argument is invalid
2007-09-20 09:31:42 · update #2
I can understand...who wants someone else's sloppy seconds?
My husband and I were both virgins when we got married and I wouldn't have had it any other way!
2007-09-20 11:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
If a guy is a virgin himself, fine. If not, you're a hypocrite who is condemning other persons for one aspect of their lives/characters. Honesty, compassion, intelligence & a dozen other things should be more important than virginity.
Why shouldn't your future bride have exactly the same # of previous partners as you have? Shouldn't a couple get together from similar backgrounds, ideals & interests? Also, if you intend to marry a virgin I hope you're man enough to let every woman you go out with know this *before* anyone's shoes come off.
When I got together with the love of my life, we both had a past history-- but perhaps you're still very young & it would be in the best interest of anyone in your demographic not to have bitten that apple just yet. It should go without saying that I have nothing against virginity, celibacy etc. but what's ok for guys=ok for girls too.
2007-09-20 21:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by Catkin 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
While it may not be easy to marry a virgin, there are more out there than most people give credit for, so you just have to look. But you do want whoever you end up with to be sexually compatible with you, and you won't really find out until you have sex. Which if you're willing to wait until you get married, good for you. But there's also nothing wrong with having sex with the one you're going to marry, before you marry. And really, girls who have had sex, not all of them are uber-sluts. So I would suggest narrowing your search down, but also having an open mind.
2007-09-20 16:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by Sharon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beautiful!!! Sex within a loving marriage is the most wonderful experience. To save yourself for the one you know you will love forever is amazing. My husband and I waited and our honeymoon was special...Ten years later and I am the only one of any of my friends still married and very happy. No trust issues and I can honestly say my husband is the best I have ever had!!!!hehehe
2007-09-20 22:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by rayneshowers 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame.
I just think it's hypocritical.
But your assessment earlier about how promiscuity doesn't apply to men is completely false. If a gay man has had multiple partners, I bet your definition of "promiscuity" would apply.
They're men too! Does that make it ok?
Me thinks you don't want to accept responsibility for your 2 am booty calls or anything else for that matter.
Perhaps she won't want HER children to be kissed with the same mouth who munched 101 muffins!
EDIT - No, my argument is NOT invalid just because you don't like it: promiscuity DOES apply to men.
pro·mis·cu·ous /prÉËmɪskyuÉs/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[pruh-mis-kyoo-uhs] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation
–adjective 1. characterized by or involving indiscriminate mingling or association, esp. having sexual relations with a number of partners on a casual basis.
2. consisting of parts, elements, or individuals of different kinds brought together without order.
3. indiscriminate; without discrimination.
4. casual; irregular; haphazard.
Do you see just women in that definition? That's because you twist it to make what YOU think it should be, but I copied and pasted FACT. Take responsibility for what YOU think, dude - not society.
Also - someone told you not to listen to us. I'm not saying NOT to marry a virgin. Do what you want. It's just infuriating to be judged by principles of your choice but not what you practice.
2007-09-20 16:07:21 · answer #5 · answered by Done 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Aside from not wanting to marry anyone at this point. I'd much rather marry someone who knows the bad. That way she'll appreciate the good much more.
A virgin would probably be impressed with anyone who can get hard and has even a small degree of ability.
There's a thing called tooth brushes. Add a little tooth paste and some time, clean mouth. It's good. In fact, the human body is in a constant state of shedding and renewal.
So yeah I'd blame them a little bit for being misinformed, mislead, or simply unwilling to think things through.
2007-09-20 15:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 5⤋
you cant be blamed for you choices,preferences and personal opinions and lifestyle
you re who you are,why should or would you be 'blamed' for that
its all up to you freedom of choice
whatever your choice is is unimportant as long as no-one is being hurt
we are all our own people
hope you find what your looking for and enjoy it when it comes along
2007-09-21 15:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by froufrou 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. It's your choice. We all have the right to make them.
EDIT:
That does sound nasty now that you mention it.
Ignore anyone who tells you that you don't have the right to make your own choice about who to marry. Many of these same people would argue that no one has the right to tell a woman what to do with her body. But, now they say you can't make this decision.
Ignore them. This is YOUR life. YOU make the call.
Plus, women almost always want a man to have attributes that she does not herself possess. That's her choice and her right.
2007-09-20 15:56:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
Wow, aren't you a gem! I can't imagine what woman wouldn't want to save herself for a womanizing hypocrite who "rarely goes downtown!"
2007-09-20 16:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by Priscilla B 5 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Blamed, no; teased, yes. The chances of marrying a virgin today are pretty damn slim, so it won't be easy.
2007-09-20 15:53:41 · answer #10 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋