how can i do this in the UK..... ? ...iv been here for only 7 months but things dont seam "Right" with my neighbour .... all his children dont want to know him ( i dont know why)...yet he likes all the children in my village to Feed the Birds in his garden....i no this is not grounds to think bad of the man ...But there is "someing not right " about his manner around children....how can i find out more ....hope you can help.
2007-09-20 07:15:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Main... My children feed the Birds you daft b itch , hence the question .
2007-09-20 07:26:27 · update #1
portland..... you dont have children do you..( go do your homework and let the grown up's talk )
2007-09-20 07:31:21 · update #2
jojo... read the reply to portland...thanks ..
2007-09-20 07:34:41 · update #3
OK ...look most of you think this is a witch hunt ..its not ..seeing a bloke getting a hard on over children feeding birds is a bit worring....that all .
2007-09-20 07:59:23 · update #4
If you really believe this guy is sexual aroused by seeing children I would be worried as well. Contact Social Services,even though they won't tell you much. You could also have a quiet word with your local Police Constable and voice your concerns.
2007-09-20 09:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by flint 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying you saw this neighbour get an erection whilst in the company of your children?
If the answer to this question is yes, and if he exposed himself or made it obvious that he was sexually aroused, then you should be speaking to the police and not on here.
As for this man's relationship with his own children, this sort of thing happens in some families, it doesn't always mean that they were abused in anyway, or sexually molested by their dad. He might well have been a tyrant father and they just don't like him now that they are adults and able to survive without his intervention.
Speak to your children about your neighbour, don't feed them the possibility, just very matter of factly see if you can get them to be open and honest about how they feel...do they feel uncomfortable with him...kids are good at sussing people who might be dangerous to them...adults see all 'strange' behaviour as danger!...but for gods sake...don't lead them or you could damage your own kids!!!
2007-09-20 17:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by lippz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You insane people disgust me. Look at all the people who could be paedophiles. Are all teachers paedophiles because they like working with children? What about Willy Wonka? Is he one too? He did run his hand through Mike Tevee's hair! Let's burn his bloody factory down!
For God's sake! You can't accuse everyone of paedophila because of a mere liking of children! That is a representation of everything that is wrong with today's sociaty.
And be honest - you made up the bit about the hard-on, didn't you?
P.S. In the past no one would have worried about something as bloody rediculous as this. They would have seen it for what it is - a man allowing children to feed birds. What part of that sentance contains the phrase "sex crime"? The absence of sexual perversion in your pathetic evidence against the poor man just shows how obviously disturbed you are.
But then, perhaps you're a paedophile! You certainly think about them a lot don't you? Maybe you think you can cast suspicion away from yourself by accusing others?
If you're so scared, ask the man.
2007-09-20 15:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I'm afraid that this scenario is the obvious price all men have to pay for this stupid governments reluctance to give proper sentences to paedophiles. we all become suspects as soon as we so much as smile at a child. i dread to think of the long term effect that this paranoia will have on our children in the future. though i understand your concerns, every body 'in their frustration' seems to be targeting any one who looks!!! in the slightest bit odd. people should collectively be targeting the government to do the job we pay them for, and protect our children. i ' like most men' wont even look in the direction of a child anymore. if they talk to me i politely answere and move away. the love of children has allways been in my heart. 'as it was my moms and my dads. little girls could twist my grandad around their little finger. he adored them. sounds spooky now. 'it didn't then' what a sic ugly world we live in where a man cant even enjoy the company of children with out fear of being accused of paedophilia. and even worse!! that my frustration would get me to feel anger at some one who's just!! 'after all' looking after the children. i think the sooner the British public silence the monsters that protect the rights of paedophiles. the sooner we can lock paedophiles up for good! and all get back to normal.
2007-09-20 21:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your own credibility seems to be in question based on your crass responses to other answerers.
I'm thinking I would rather my kids feed this man's birds than visit your home. I surely would not want my kids called "daft b**ches".
However, I would observe how the neighbours are reacting to this man and base my actions on that. Probably the man is simply lonely and enjoys company. You should be very observant however, because you never know.
2007-09-20 14:40:46 · answer #5 · answered by Wyoming Rider 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you could take a little responsibility. If you're not happy, don't let your children anywhere near him.
But don't start throwing accusations around without any evidence. Or are you looking for an excuse to bring the lynch mob round to the house of anyone you're unsure of, to brighten up your dull little life?
2007-09-20 18:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Sceptic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i really think you might be looking for some thing that's not real, be careful your paranoia may ruin a life for no reason at all.
this kind of thing could do so much damage . feeding birds and being friendly is not wrong.
the kids in my street call me scary man because i don't put up with crap. they don't come near me . my wife and kids know this. they also know i love my kids and would not hesitate to do what i think is best for some one who harmed a child. i also feed birds. everyone knows i love all kids and will do anything for them even if they are scared of me .
this does not make me a child molester . get real and be tolerant be fore you go wreck a life
2007-09-20 15:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by IHATETHEEUSKI 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to contact the local police. He may have a record and may be prohibited from being alone with children. Otherwise, if you really think something's wrong, tell the other parents your concerns, and confront him yourself if you feel you have too.
Of course you can't make any actual accusations if nothing's happened, but better safe than sorry. No reason kids should ever be around an adult not family by themselves.
2007-09-20 14:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
You cant really. You could trawl every newspaper over the past few years to see if hes been arrested or convicted (if it made the papers) but otherwise I dont think you can do anything.
2007-09-20 14:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by jeanimus 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can't find out from any one official, even if they did know.
as the government has decided a full version of Megan's Law will not be adopted here.
it would be against a paedophiles human rights to inform his neighbours & their children.
But it is being piloted in 3 areas, do you live in one of these areas?
since you've mentioned his children don't want to know him, think that might be a dead-give-away.
2007-09-20 14:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋