2007-09-20 07:11:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
good question. and i am not sure of the answer but i would say yes. Also people tend to dislike what they are afraid of, uncertain of, and jealous of
2007-09-20 07:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, pretty much. I've read this in other places, and it does seem to bear alot of truth. When someone trains their minds to always focus on the imperfections and nuances of personality in someone else, it's usually a sure sign that there's something about themselves that they find lacking, and hence, irritating. Every person I've ever known who constantly was at odds with someone else over seemingly trivial points had issues with themselves about themselves. When other people become a mirror that reflects us, our personality, our nature, in all their shortcomings, the level of anxiety can only be imagined.
2007-09-20 07:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by RIFF 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why should we dislike them why because he or she is the person who are reminding the things which we dont like after all we use to forgot those things but they are use to remind us to they are caring ur life things not us let them do
2007-09-20 17:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by pandu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely think so yes. Its like some of the things i do remind me of what my mum does & whilst I love my mum i certainly don't wanna turn into her!
2007-09-20 08:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
depending on the nature of the person, if you put me in a room with 20 other women i would be more inclined to converse with someone who looked like me, just so i would feel comfortable and not take a chance on snooty rejection.
2007-09-20 07:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think that's true. You notice this if you copy someones actions or repeat how they speak, they become very uncomfortable. Also those with specific hang ups will condemn others who have them quite vehemently.
2007-09-20 07:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by Spiny Norman 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Great question! I think we do, subconciously we see something in them that we hate and put it on them...... I sometimes have dreams about someone at work I dislike intensely and these dreams often have her doing things that I would.....
2007-09-20 07:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by Jojotraveller 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think we do, I dislike people who are weak and moaning, although i have the same traits. i like people who are stronger character and more confident and outgoing, probably because I aspire to this.
If we don't like ourselves, we never want our kids to be like us although we find it hard when they are different to us!
2007-09-20 10:14:19 · answer #8 · answered by Cab Sav Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no human is im- perfect ,but perfect as per nature,u should always develop on ur positive points,rather ignore people pointing ur negative.and accept it as normal
2007-09-20 07:27:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-09-20 07:14:52 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋