2007-09-20 07:09:57 · 5 answers · asked by zeref 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
no- just support them. This was a really tough decision, one that they are going to have to deal with the rest of their lives, so they need a friend right now.
I also recommend finding them a couselor who can help them through this time.
Remember it is a process and they will have good days and bad days for a while, but eventually (if they are supported through friends/family/therapy) they will have more good days than bad.
2007-09-20 07:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by julie744527 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to cheer up someone who has aborted is to just be there for them and show that you care. I have a friend who has aborted and I was there with her in the clinic. Its not easy because you're not sure of what to say. But if you be there for them and care it will help.
2007-09-28 05:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by Salina M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for them and give them lots of support. Im sure this was a very difficult decision for your friend and she will need someone to comfort her and help her through this. Maybe even suggesting a counselor or speaking with a pastor at church would be a good idea.
2007-09-20 07:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by stephensbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friend who stays around and accidentally says the wrong thing is worth more than the ones who stay away.
Be supportive.
Listen to the stories.
have Kleenex to blot tears.
2007-09-26 13:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by greybeads 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVING AN ABORTION IS SOMETHING YOU WILL NEVER GET OVER,UNLESS YOU JUST DONT GIVE A CRAP. ITS BEEN 15 YEARS SINCE I HAD MINE AND I STILL THINK ABOUT IT. I REGRET IT TO TELL THE TRUTH. IF ITV GETS TO BE A MAJOR PROBLEM I WOULD HAVE THEM GO TO A COUNSLER TO HELP THEM.
2007-09-20 07:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by TABBYKAT34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋