i am a 30A in bra size. my mum won't believe me, and my big sister says my boobs are too small. neither of them want me to grow up. when i talk about sex to my sister she rolls her eyes and asks me why i care so much. i really need advice!!
2007-09-20 06:23:59 · 12 answers · asked by kenny r 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
First of all wearing a bra isn't fun. I would love it if I never had to wear one again. And maybe your sister is just embarrassed to talk about these things with her little sister. Just give her time and ask her lots of questions.
2007-09-20 06:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by beyondthelimit 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm well sometimes you breast can be big but not poke through your shirt yet...sorry i didnt know how else to word that. butttt i understand because i always wanted to wear a bra too. Other people on here say they are bothersome, but they really arnt. If you start off with a sports bra or a training bra at first you will get used to it and they can support a 30A. It is also normal for you to want to talk about sex, so go for it!!! if you have a grandma or aunt you could always ask them to get you a bra and talk about sex. Orrr you could try to steal one of your older sisters bras from when she was younger if she still has them. But if that all fails.....save up you money and go to kohls, jcpenny, macys, target or any major department store. I dont know if you live in england or not but in the US they only cost about 5-15 dollars for a bra in 30A.
2007-09-20 08:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by Tess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to answer this question without knowing how old you are. :\ if you're 10, 11, 12, I would say let it go for now. But if in a year or so, if she's still the same, just sit her down and CALMLY explain why you feel you need to get a bra and start wearing one. If you feel embarassed at school for any reason, just explain that to her. However, if you're older than 13, I would say you need to sit down and talk this out with her now. Wearing bras isn't fun, you won't want to once you start, but if it's becoming embarassing for you, then you definitely need to talk to your mother. Be calm about it.
And maybe you shouldn't go around talking about sex with your sister. I mean, that's totally normal, but your sister might not be very comfortable with her little sister talking about that to her - and depending on your age, it might worry her a little bit.
2007-09-20 10:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by Mish Hell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow what a family.
If YOU feel you need a bra, they should let you wear one.
If your mom won't believe you, go to Nordstroms JCPenney's or Sears and get sized by one of the women there (NOT victoria secret, they size incorrectly). After the woman tells you your size and you try on a bra maybe your mom will realize you DO need one.
2007-09-20 07:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell them it's your body and you don't feel comfortable not wearing one. It's not her who's gotta walk around without one on when she wishes she was wearing one!! at first my older sister and i teased my little sister about her boobs.. now she's bigger than the both of us :] why does your mom care if you do/!?
2007-09-20 06:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your need to know is normal. So is your desire to talk of sex.
Your Mum and your sister are different.
If your Mum don't let you ware a bra, then don't. You'll get tired of them soon enough.
2007-09-20 06:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by Handy man 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
i stated wearing bras last year trust once u can wear u dont want to just wait bout a month once u hit pubrytiy you'll amazed how fast they'll grow in a month lol
2007-09-20 06:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would just wear tight under shirts if you feel like you have something to hide, if not then stop worrying. Or wear a bathing suit top.
2007-09-20 06:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by Trinidy 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well thats wrong cuz ur mom cant stop the way ur body grows so u sould talk to her or just buy urself one
2007-09-20 06:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom you'd like to at least try it out to see how it feels. How old are you?
2007-09-20 06:37:13 · answer #10 · answered by ☆ღWifey Wifeyღ☆ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋