i hate guys touching me down there because i have lots of pubes. i shave sometimes, but whenever any sexual relations happen it will be spur of the moment and i stress out because i havent shaved...uhhh!
2007-09-20 06:17:15 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
most guys tend to prefer a trimmed area...just make it a weekly ritual that you tend to the crops.
Seriously, most guys don't like the hair because it can be unhygienic, shaved can be nice, but we tend to prefer a well mowed and shaped lawn.
2007-09-20 06:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by Danny N 4 · 10⤊ 5⤋
Unfortunately, most guys are visual and they've been exposed to the world of pornography. And most women are shaved in those films, which are directed by men. Now porn has set the "trend" for women to be shaved down there. Since guys are visual, they have had their "eyes trained" - so to speak. Almost like a form of brainwashing. Keep in mind the phrase - "out of sight, out of Mind." I think you get the point.
My personal preference is a woman with pubic hair. I like it, and there's nothing wrong with it. It's natural and it shows that a girl is now an Adult woman. After all, I don't want to be with a 2nd-grader. I like the fact that she is a full on WOMAN.
My advice to you - have a little confidence in yourself and realize that the RIGHT MAN will accept your body as it is.
And don't buy into all this hype about "it's cleaner." That's just a term to justify it.
When it's clean - It's clean. And if it wasn't meant to be there then it wouldn't be there.
So feel comfortable with your woman-hood. There are men out there who care more about a relationship rather than if you have pubic hair or not. They are more rare these days.
I hope you find these types.
Good luck
2007-09-20 06:40:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jazz Brotha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime you have relations its spur of the moment? So you sleep around and dont have a boyfriend when you engage in sex? If you had sex only in serious relationships I would think it wouldnt be that spur of the moment, thats why I'm asking.
Anyways I have only had sex in serious relationships, so I keep shaved. They have liked and preferred I was shaven, but every guy is different. Some do not mind if youre not, but I think any guy would at least like you trimmed... not going all wild and long lol I just think thats NASTY. Personally I feel very clean and sexy being shaven. Its a routine for me to do it at least every other day.
2007-09-20 06:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, most guys like the hair, contrary to what the outspoken ones who don't, say. Pubic hair is a sign of sexual maturity as opposed to prepubescent children.
If you want to go with a childish fad, shave. If you want a mature companion, don't shave. There is nothing more beautiful that what nature has created. Don't try to change what nature has given you. That goes for tattoos also.
2007-09-20 06:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I can only shave that part once a week because I get such bad razor burn there. I always do it on the weekend though because that is most likely when I will see action (even though I am super happy single). As long as you don't have long and curlies, it shouldn't be that big a deal.
2007-09-20 06:21:56 · answer #5 · answered by Go Bears! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just trim them down dont shave them all the way if u trim them every week then u will have nothing to worry about or if ur gonna still shave just shave more often
2007-09-20 06:23:25 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can just trim. If it is shaved- sometimes it grow back too spiky and it is uncomfortable to both. Not to mention very itchy for the lady.
2007-09-20 06:22:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could get a Brazilian wax from time to time and have only a narrow strip down the middle.
2007-09-20 06:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by beez 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just shave every time you take a shower.
I'm a girl, and i used to feel nervous/not clean when i had anything down there. each guy is different, if you have a steady guy you're with, maybe just jokingly ask him something about it and see what he says. then you'll know.
2007-09-20 06:23:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't like the "stubble burn" from those who shave.
Natural pubes are OK as long as I get to shower you first.
2007-09-20 06:23:01 · answer #10 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shave them off every day when you take a shower or a bath you will notice how much more sensitive it is when shaved use a sharp razor and plenty of soap done reguarly you shouldnt get any rash
2007-09-20 08:51:33 · answer #11 · answered by answerwheniknow! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋