Why do so many NOT ALL but many of you date women of other races but have a problem when blk women do it? Why do SOME of you feel that it’s okay to be disrespectful & call THAT woman all kinds of names for finding love. Why do SOME of you want to pick a fight w/ the non-blk man who is w/ that white woman? Do you really think that behavior is going make that blk woman want to date a blk man? If yes, why? Why do SOME of you get upset that blk women are doing the very thing that you are doing (dating outside of her race)? Why do SOME of you feel that you own blk women? Why do SOME you call blk women ghetto and say that white women are not, when only 12% of you graduate high school and then go on to college, most of you end up in jail, and many of you do not take full responsibility or even partial responsibility for the children you create w/ women of any race? Why do SOME of you put down blk women period and then call upon blk women to help you out when you get into trouble?
2007-09-20 06:03:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Why do SOME of you call blk women hard to get along w/ when in actuality you too are no walk in the park?
IF THE ABOVE DOES NOT APPLY TO YOU THEN I'M NOT SPEAKING TO YOU! If you feel you know why they do such, PLEASE feel free to answer, but serious answers only!
2007-09-20 06:05:10 · update #1
Tony B: I have no unfortunate personal experience w/ black men. This is what I experience day to day when I am with my bf who is white. What you are doing is not taking responsibitly for what (if not you) some of your blk male counterparts are doing!
2007-09-20 06:21:48 · update #2
Clay Biggs: I'm far from self concious and have NEVER wanted a black man so don't come here spouting your ingnorance. Why not try asking the above questions!
2007-09-20 06:23:09 · update #3
Atlantic Starr: I am asking honest questions from what I see black men doing and what I experience when I am out with my bf.
2007-09-20 06:24:58 · update #4
SO MUCH HATRED Why R BLK PPL simply not wanting to answer the above questions? Why so much anger? I mean this kind of thing happens everytime me & my honey go out. Why do you have so much anger at us?
2007-09-20 06:31:03 · update #5
Tony B: This is for you
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AstNmwVCqpdiFQglzeoC_Ebsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20070919111715AA9pSd3
2007-09-20 06:46:54 · update #6
ClayBiggs & Tony B: You guys are so immature.
2007-09-20 07:03:15 · update #7
DJ Teeza I'm a girl not a guy!
2007-09-20 12:19:57 · update #8
LMAO they haven't got a reason see how they all avoid the question? They don't even attempt to answer it.
2007-09-20 09:17:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
there are a lot of good anwsers here. What's the real kicker is when some black men do it in front of a black woman when he's with a non-black woman. I remember i was watching an episode of the mtv show called, "True Life: Im in an interracial relationship" and this one couple (BW/WM) were out chillin, minding there business, (they were from TN) and these black men were like, "Oh, she playing herself, he can't handle all that ***" and even some of the black women were giving her petty looks and laughin! .
i dont know....i guess that's just the way it is. It does goes both ways, though. ive seen bw go off on brothas, too.
when it comes down to it, ANYONE who gets p!ssed off about someone dating someone who is another race or gets mad about your preference is sad. You obviously have nothing else better to do. One person on here even said that only ugly folks date IR? what is that? So you observed EVERY person who date IR and did your research?
2007-09-20 08:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by Bore sum 1 else w/ ur question! 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Girl I have been asking this question for years ... I have gotten a few responses, but none actually answers the question that's at hand.
Example: Hubby and I were in a bar, and he was playing pool and I was sitting at the bar with my back up against the bar and a couple came in, Black guy White girl and they sat next to me at the bar, and my hubby came over to me and kissed me and said, "I'll be back, I'm going to the mensroom", and when he walked away, the black guy leans into me and said "what r u doing with that white boy" OMG I totally flipped out and I had to let him have it something serious, LOL ...
So I know that's a question that I'll like answered also ...
2007-09-20 10:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Man if you have a black woman that's fine...Some of the black men that date white woman are just returning the favor, of what was done to the black man during slavery. The humilation, the disrepect of his man hood when the white man just took the black woman and had his way..In many cases making the black watch.
Far as your comment you sound a bit rascist, and it makes wonder are u with the black woman for the same reason as you ancestors.
You are talking to a black man, that was marriad to a white woman, had twins daughters that are both in college.I took care of my girls from the time they left the womb, until the time they entered College. You going by a stat, that as not been revised in god know how long, but that's typical of the white race trying find just a little bit they can to stay ahead. To answer your question, why black men call black names when they get with a white man, because many dennounce their own people and culture, the reason for that is because the white man wants all of her, and he can't except the fact that she is black in spirit and mind. So he makes her leave it..
Buddy that sounds like what you are doing, so you are looking for justification for it, by spatting stats and percentages in order to make you are not sure confirm...My advise to you is, look with in yourself and find truly what you are with that black for. Is it love or payback.....Cause you really sound like the typical slave owner with your house *****
2007-09-20 07:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by Dj Teeza 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋
You know how I hear you. How can we change this mentality around? When a white woman comes to the hood with a black man, she is in trouble, wspecially with the black women. seriously. I went through some stuff, thank god I dont play that. Is there really an anwer to this? I guess narrowmindedness wil keep any one person from moving ahead. Hi.
2007-09-20 06:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by KARMA IS IT THOU? 7 · 5⤊ 3⤋
Bottom line "THEY ARE MEN". Men are the cause of most all chaos and wars in the world anyway because they don't think first and look within themselves to see what troublemakers they are. It's ok for "US MEN" to do it, but "YOU WOMEN" cannot. That is why I stay single. I just do not appreciate most men in the U.S. today, but really, world wide.
They are egotistical, cocky, puffed up, arrogant, improper thinking pieces of garbage as far as I am concerned, and yes, I've dated white or other races of men in the past and have found what you say to be exactly on point.
Mostly though it just has to do with the inability for MEN to properly think on their own outside their tiny box filled with ego and dumb testosterone. Just simply look at the chaos in the world today. Who really is causing all the anarchy in the world today....MEN. They've gone from bad to worse.
2007-09-20 06:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 10⤊ 1⤋
I have no problem with black women dating men of other races. I wouldn't even accuse her of self-hating. I mean its possible the white dude can be a great guy. But, I do have a problem when black women say they ONLY date white guys because black men are [place your pejorative statement here].
2007-09-20 06:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by $0.02 4 · 6⤊ 2⤋
I am white & my husband is black. Lately we have been noticing more & more black women with white men. Both of us think it's cool. My husband has sisters & if they date a black guy...that's cool & if they date a white guy...that's cool, too. Just a couple of weeks ago we went to see Eddie Griffin & were sitting in the front row. He commented on us & said that we would have "a damn pretty child that everyone would want to kidnap". Of course, he was just kidding about the kidnapping part, LOL, but like he said....everyone should mix it up!!! If everyone were mixed, there could be no racism!
2007-09-20 07:08:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 4⤋
another question i have is
why is a black man havin a relationship with a white woman more execpted than a black woman with a white man?
i hate that cuz i'll be walkin down the street like "he's so fine" lookin at a white guy and then think about what would happen if i approched him... if he wuld even want to date me but also if other ppl wuld execpt it as much
2007-09-20 06:11:34 · answer #9 · answered by ~TylML~ 3 · 8⤊ 2⤋
I am curious to were do you get these stats from. Is it all in the census. Do people really get into a car accident every 8 seconds.
After reading your questions it sounds like you really hate black men.
2007-09-20 12:15:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋