lol its pathetic but i need friends that are girls but i cant stand any of them... pettiness, stupidity (intentional or not)
can i get an ahmen about that?
2007-09-20 03:57:01 · 17 answers · asked by sharpie2292 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i dunno
2007-09-20 04:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by Alberto Inestine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, ahmen. You got it. If you are not just like them, then maybe you should try making friends with older more mature girls. If that doesn't work, maybe you're picking the wrong girls, or maybe you are not as mature as you think. Loose some of the attitude too. No one is perfect. Even best friends.That probably won't get me any votes for best answer, but if you really are serious and truthful, you will consider the thought.
2007-09-20 11:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by babymans2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I feel you on that so bad. I have had some hellified experiences the past few years with females. I only have 1 (one) friend right now in my life and I've known that chic since middle school. She's the only person I trust to be around my man, my son, I can trust her with money, whatever.
But I've been trying to open up because she moved to Arizona and I STILL cant find any females I could be tight with like that. Thats not a pathetic question girl, I'm feelin you on that one. I met this one chic in Philly and this beyotch, oh man, she was just... I cant even get into it right now. but I'm looking for real and openminded people to be cool with too. Holla at me cause I dont know where all the REAL CHICS are at all!!!
2007-09-20 11:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by teri is ambience 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, choose ones that aren't petty or stupid. But know this about girls... they are followers when in a group and terrified of being "different". By different that means an individual with thoughts, actions, and a style of their own.
So, before counting out all girls, see them away from the "crowd" and know them individually.
Making friends; it's all about being interested and interesting. Ask, listen and remember what they tell you. Be able to talk about more than yourself.
2007-09-20 11:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by HiddenBarb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, u have to accept people for who they are, even if they are stupid, drama queens and so on. U already sound like u might think ur better then anyone else and that wont cut it. U will never have friends with that attitude. Lighten up, ur not one this planet very long. Friends help u get thru life with all of the ups and downs. Friends deal with ur imperfections and accept u for who u are. Jules
2007-09-20 11:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by smi_le_y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right there with you Babe! I consider myself a guy's girl because I refuse to get caught up in the drama that some women feel compelled to have in their lives. Fortunately, not all women are drama queens, so maybe you will get lucky and happen upon another guy's girl to bond with. I get tired of the competition of women regarding looks, status, etc. My male friends are straight up with me, although sometimes they can be a little uncouth! Their refreshing honesty makes it all worthwhile!
2007-09-20 11:11:41 · answer #6 · answered by Really now 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u are not the only one in that boat. I have the same problem. My best friend is my only woman friend....I always mostly had guy friends but since I married I havent talked to any of them ..actually thats more because they are too into drugs so I stayed clear. Anyway I havent been able to find other women who really relate u know....its hard. Best of luck
2007-09-20 11:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by intensity92000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well amen for u girl.. Its very true, in my uni its mostly single girls who hang around with guys. The girls i dont know why they dont get along. I think because they are jealous of other girls with many guys hanging with the other girl and makes the girl inferior to them.
Try to get real down to earth, start talking to girls, go out clubbing. Do u go to uni? If so meet look at the girls in your uni class and look for girls who dont gossip much (its mostly the girls who gossip are trouble) . Look for confidence in yourself and find your way to true friendship.
Hope this helps
2007-09-21 04:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by Glebo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're a girl! Im sure there are other girls like you who are not full of "pettiness, stupidity" and anyway, so what if they are? That's just a normal girl thing!
2007-09-20 11:13:34 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Killing Loneliness♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a girl? I'm a girl and it's sad to say But I cannot make friends who are girls. I'm always bumbping with them and their thinking.
2007-09-20 11:04:46 · answer #10 · answered by Ineedyouherewithme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you forget about making friends with girls... and look for a gay guy... they are the best of both worlds!
2007-09-20 11:03:01 · answer #11 · answered by truthbeginsasblasphemy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋