please give a reason
2007-09-20 03:53:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Any woman who says she has never thought of cheating is lying. Women do think of it, I know I have, but I have never acted on it. I usually think of it whenever my husband and I have ongoing disagreements, or when I feel taken for granted, or when I just want to feel that special feeling you get at the beginning of a relationship. This is normal, we get mad, want revenge, want comfort, need love strokes, the list can go on and on. But if the foundation of the trust, love and friendship in a woman's marriage is strong, then the decision to cheat is usually just a passing thought, never to come true.
2007-09-20 04:03:50 · answer #1 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I almost cheated....I told my husband i was thinking about it and we worked out any and all problems that we may have been having, I also ended all contact with the guy who kept telling me my husband was worthless, (even though he was the worthless husband, if only his wife knew what he was trying to do, but i know that he will eventually find someone willing to cheat with him in time) i never did anything at all with him but to this day i still feel guilty knowing that i thought about it. Things are even stronger now with my husband than they ever were, I love my husband so much and it would have destroyed my life, nothing would have been worth losing my best friend over. my advice is if a person feels like cheating than they should talk it over with there spouse before making such a disastrous action. They probably don't even know that you are having problems in the relationship and if given the chance than they would most likely do there best to work on the problems.
Not that it matters but when all of this happened we were not married, we weren't even engaged. but the man trying to get me in bed was married with two kids!
2007-09-20 11:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
never had the thoughts of cheating on my hubby. I've checked out other guys and maybe flirted a little, but never thought about cheating and never will cheat, I just love him too damn much.
2007-09-20 16:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by hungryeyes001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't cheated on my husband. I have thought about it when I get really pissed or something. I had cheated on someone else, and I cannot do that again.
2007-09-20 11:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I haven't ever thought about cheating on my husbands first or current I'm not a good liar and I would get burned bad... plus I am very happy now in my relationship so why go anywhere else
2007-09-20 11:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
never but some times i think about dumbing him not cheating on him . dont give ur self an excuse
2007-09-20 10:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by miliy 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I have many times,but never have.I posted a ? myself on my troubled marriage-based on the answers I got,women tend to think about this because they are unhappy for some reason.Lacking something in the relationship.
2007-09-20 11:19:41 · answer #7 · answered by Got Any Grey PouPon? 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i have cheated on past boyfriends b/c someone else sparked interest in me....there was some kind of firey connection and i went with it.
have i ever thought of cheating on my husband? no. never thought of it and never have....
he is the only man i've found who can keep my interest.
2007-09-20 10:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by joey322 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Never cheated, never will cheat.
2007-09-20 11:02:06 · answer #9 · answered by gorgeous 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
NOT ONCE! I meant my vows when I said them... So did my hubby so we have a strong and loving marriage.
2007-09-20 11:05:57 · answer #10 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋