i identify myself as bisexual but i am having second thoughts now; i think i might be gay and i've been thinking this for two weeks now. the only possiblity is that i am 80% gay and 20% straight and i never discovered my sexuality earlier on. i feel as though now that i would rather sleep with a woman than a man and that i couldn't sleep with a man again.
what do you think?
2007-09-20 03:32:53 · 14 answers · asked by ♥SPARKLES♥™ 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
lynnie: have you got the link to your question?
2007-09-20 03:54:15 · update #1
lynnie: don't worry i found it!
2007-09-20 03:56:45 · update #2
jake: thanks!
2007-09-20 03:59:46 · update #3
My darling sexual orientation does not change, I think you simply have a strong preference for women. I am about 95:5 for guys. The occasional women will turn me on, but this still makes me somewhat bi. If you are struggling with the label I suggest Bipermissive Homosexual.
Edit: Link to The question:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AgvSwXezrMguK_44S1r1CtLsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20070918072653AA2a2Ti
2007-09-20 03:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I recently asked a question very similar to this... I think it is simply getting more comfortable with being a lesbian. You may want to look at the answers I got. Also, Homoflexible is an interesting concept. I think thats basically what I am, you can look it up on www.urbandictionary.com just type it in the search bar.
2007-09-20 03:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by Lynnie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, nor has your orientation changed.
When people experiment, they discover what their inborn, natural orientation is.
Kinsey said there is a whole spectrum of orientation. No one is required to be in the same exact place on the spectrum as the next person.
Instead of worrying about the labels, just focus on the people that bring joy to your life - and electricity to your loins. :o)
2007-09-20 03:47:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sparkles, baby, just be YOU!
Your self-perception and self-awareness of your sexuality will change over time. Labels are just words used to make some things easier, and can be changed according to your whim.
But your sweetness will always be there. You will always be, deep-down, the wonderful young lady you already are. Go with that label. "Wonderful". It works well for you.
2007-09-20 03:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by FTW 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you can't imagine sleeping with a man then you are most likely a lesbian. I thought I was bi for the longest time. Then it dawned on me that I didnt like having sex with men (I thought I was just not that interested in sex) and i thought that all women didnt get tingly when looking at naked men. Then I met my girlfriend and realized how foolish I was. I get all tingly looking at women, I dont hate sex, I just hate sex with men.
2007-09-20 04:15:15 · answer #5 · answered by madelblue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that you are in fact a lesbian, but honestly, only you can answer that question. Just look within you. The answer is there. But whatever it may be, it doesn't change you from being a sweet wonderful human being.
2007-09-20 03:36:44 · answer #6 · answered by Oberon 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What is the famous quote I think it is "To thy own self be true" people change over time as our perceptions change and we learn more things about ourselves just embrace who you are.
Never forget that YOU ROCK!!!!!
2007-09-20 04:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sexuality is a continuum. i don't think you can pinpoint an exact label for everyone. and overtime, people change with new experiences, ect. i think it's very possible you've come to love only women... but that's something you need to figure out yourself.
2007-09-20 03:39:53 · answer #8 · answered by K 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh! yes definitily, If you feel that you have feelings towards women more than men.. then yes you are gay..
2007-09-20 04:25:59 · answer #9 · answered by aaron l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are gay. You can always change your mind again later, if you want. Why label yourself.? Good luck!
2007-09-20 03:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Pickles the lunch lady 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋