My Husband and I are trying to get pregnant but 2 years later have had no luck...?

Question

I am 26 and he is 28 and have both been to the doctors and were given a clean bill of health. I do have cysts on my overies but was told that if I continue taking my medication that they shouldnt be an issue. We are both in great shape and dont drink in excess or smoke.

Does anyone have any sugestions or recomendations to help us get pregnant? Thanks =)

Answer 1

How to get Pregnant Faster – Top Ten Tips

1. Have sex three times a week.

Having regular sex is the best way to get pregnant. Couples often try to time everything perfectly for ovulation but do not have sex when they think they are not ovulating. It is true that sex that is not within the time of ovulation will not result in pregnancy. However, because women do not always ovulate when they think they will, having sex three times a week will help to a woman cover her bases, so to speak, and not miss an opportunity to get pregnant.
2. Use an ovulation prediction kit or fertility monitor.

Using an ovulation kit to predict when you are ovulating will improve your chances of getting pregnant. For many women charting or other methods of ovulation prediction are too confusing. Ovulation prediction kits work by reading LH surges prior to ovulation. They are relatively easy to use and are generally accurate for predicting ovulation. Fertility monitors, such as the Clear Blue Easy monitor, are also a worthwhile investment if you would like to get pregnant faster. Fertility monitors are similar to ovulation prediction kits in that they read changes in LH but they also read changes in other hormones and don’t require any guesswork for couples. They are easy to use and will tell you when the best time to get pregnant is.

3. Have sex before ovulation (not after).

Sometimes couples get confused about the best time to have sex in relationship to ovulation. You have a small window of time each month to get pregnant. After a woman ovulates the egg will survive approximately 24 hours. Sperm, on the other hand, will live for up to three to five days. This is why having sex two to three days before ovulation will increase your chances of getting pregnant. Don’t wait until the day you ovulate to have sex. Your partner’s sperm will last longer than your egg and you don’t want to miss an opportunity by waiting.

4. Don’t rely on the Calendar method for predicting ovulation.

A lot of couples have heard to have sex around day fourteen of your cycle. This is based on the calendar method and assumes that you have a regular 28-day cycle and ovulate mid-cycle. Although this is better than just picking an arbitrary day to have sex, it is not a very accurate way to predict when you ovulate. Many women do not ovulate on day fourteen and knowing precisely when you ovulate will help you time intercourse better. Ovulation prediction kits, looking at previous months bbt charts, or watching for body cues will help you to determine when you ovulate.

5. Charting may not be the best way to predict ovulation.

Charting is great for tracking your cycle but it does have disadvantages. By the time you can see ovulation on a bbt chart, you have already ovulated. It is good to chart so you can track your cycles, see if you ovulate the same time each month, and also so you can look back on your cycle and see if you timed things right. But if this is your first cycle trying to get pregnant or if you are not ovulating at the same time each month, an ovulation prediction kit would be more helpful.

6. See a doctor before you start trying to get pregnant.
Make sure you are in good health and have had a regular check up from your OBGYN or medical provider. Untreated infections, sexually transmitted diseases, or poor health can affect your chances of getting pregnant. Its good to see a doctor as well as start taking prenatal vitamins prior to trying to conceive.

7. Don’t smoke, drink alcohol, or abuse drugs when trying to get pregnant.
This may seem like common sense but many women do try to get pregnant while smoking, drinking or using drugs. Smoking, drugs, and alcohol can affect your fertility. It will also affect your unborn child. It is important to stop smoking or using drugs and alcohol before getting pregnant and not wait until you find out you are pregnant.

8. Have enjoyable sex.

Sometimes when couples are trying to conceive, sex becomes a job or function of reproduction and is not as enjoyable. Plan a romantic evening or try something different to spice things up. How you are feeling sexually may factor into your chances of getting pregnant. Some researchers believe that having an orgasm during sex increases your chances of getting pregnant. For women, the spasmic movements of orgasm will help pull the sperm into the uterus and for men a better orgasm may increase the man’s sperm count.

9. Have sex in positions that keep sperm inside the vagina longer.

The missionary position is a good position to use when trying to get pregnant. Avoid positions where the woman is on top. Gravity will allow sperm to leak out with these positions. Also try placing a pillow under your hips to help tilt your pelvis and keep the sperm in longer. Don’t get up right after sex. Try to relax and allow the sperm to stay in the vagina as long as possible.

10. There is no such thing as trying too hard to get pregnant.
Most couples get pregnant within a year of trying. If you have not gotten pregnant within a year consult your doctor for advice.
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Answer 2

I totally understand how you feel, as i was there not too long ago! I also had PCOS and spent 2 years trying to conceive. The good news is i just had a baby boy, so there is hope. I assume you are on metformin to control the cysts, but ask about adding in clomid to ovulate if you still aren't - you might need an extra push. Also, make an appointment with a reproductive endocrinologist - they can talk about IUI and IVF as options.

Good luck!

Answer 3

If you haven't gotten pregnant in 2 years of trying, there is something wrong that your doctor hasn't found. Both you and your hubby need to go to a fertility specialist and be checked thoroughly. Maybe they can do in-vtro or another procedure, depending on the problem. If it were only 6 months of trying, I'd say keep trying, but 2 years is plenty of time to get pregnant if there is no underlying problem.

Answer 4

If its been 2yrs I would suggest going to a fertility specialist and getting rechecked.
I was told by an OB that I was perfectly fine and when I saw a specialist I found I had PCOS.
We had been trying almost 3yrs for our 2nd child and within a month of being diagnosed and treated I was pregnant with our daughter.

Answer 5

Stop thinking about it. Seriously, one month don't worry at all about getting pregnant. Just have sex and have fun. That's what I did and got pregnant! I didn't mean to, but I stopped stressing and it happened. I think your body purposely doesn't get pregnant when you stress because you are under stressful conditions bad as an environment to grow a baby.

Also, have you talked to your doctor about getting on the drug Clomid?

Answer 6

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Answer 7

Are you seeing a reproductive endocronologist? They can suggest alot more for you than OB/gyn. You can try doing injectable medications, instead of clomid, which will increase your follicles. You can also do IUI.

Answer 8

you should have went to a specialist when you realized that after a year you were still not pregnant.. go to your obgyn.. tell them if they can check everything and if they reccomend IVF treatment.. and your husband should get his sperm checked as well..

Answer 9

You might have to go and talk to a infertitly specialist because 2yrs with a regular obgy and no luck it is a bit much.....Best of Luck to you !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 10

see your doctor and stop drinking alcohol period. have hubby wear boxers and no real hot baths