There is an absolutely beautiful transsexual girl in the office, she was a guy until about 6 months ago but now she is a beautiful girl.
She has the sexiest long ginger hair. She is wearing a tight black jumper showing her new assests, a tight knee length black skirt and black opaque tights and heels. This is the 1st time since her transformation she has worn a skirt and tights and her legs look hot.
I am falling for her in a big way and we often smile at each other. I don't know what to do, I want to ask her out what should I do?
2007-09-20 02:17:59 · 57 answers · asked by Graeme 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
This might seem really strange but that sounds like me. I don't know about stunning but I have been a living my life as a girl for 6 months, I have long ginger hair and I am wearing a skirt and black tights for the first time today. I am please to tell you I will be wearing skirts alot from now as I love them! I could have sworn I saw you staring at my legs this morning!
If you are the Graeme that I have been smiling at recently at my work then I am very interested. I am very flattered that you like me.
I am going for a coffee at 3.30 would love to chat if you are about!
2007-09-20 03:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
From what you have said you are falling in LUST not LOVE with the person and there is a difference if you have genuine feelings you would have no doubt you would ask her out.You are looking at the exterior and not the interior of this person.If you had just met this girl in a nightclub and not known about her past would you have hesitated.I don't think so you would have gone in headfirst and asked her out.You are like many others looking at sex and not what is inside a person.
2007-09-21 06:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by AFDEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun its not all just about how she looks, its also about who she is. If you are for real babes, Talk to her, get to know her and see how things go from there. At the end of the day the fact she is a TS is irrelevant, so the clowns on here with the silly comments should just grow up, it is all about who she is x
2007-09-20 03:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by Maria S © 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are doing it for the right reasons then go ahead. Just don't do it to satisfy your curiosity and then hurt her. ..she deserves better.
If you really fancy her ask in the same way that you would any other girl and treat her the same. don't be hurt if she turns you down as the office may be too close for her comfort zone though.
Good luck and keep us posted.
2007-09-22 00:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by martin eds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it if you like her as much as you say.
You seem to like her outfit, just imagine walking holding hands or running your hands over the tights on her sexy legs.
We can't help who we fall for, be it man, woman or other. Don't be afraid, most transsexual girls like guys and from what I have heard a lot of people have an amazing sex life with a transsexual girl...
..go get her!
2007-09-20 02:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by Lorraine C 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Putting aside her transformation, it's considered bad form to date co-workers, and in some offices it's prohibited and you could be dismissed. If the relationship goes bad, it could be unpleasant to continue to work together, and if it succeeds you'll be subject to ridicule and speculation.
2007-09-20 02:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
okay, ask yourself this question, if I had just had a sex change, would i want a guy to ask me out? so you'll say yes.
she is legally a woman now, treat her like one! i'm willing to bet she's really sweet and acts nothing like a man at all now. don't worry about criticism in the office because she really is a woman now.
good luck
2007-09-20 02:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by ohhxkatie 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Show her that you are open minded and invite her out for lunch and take it from there. Best of luck!
2007-09-23 00:39:34 · answer #8 · answered by alisonwildtgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife says you should try and get to know her a bit, compliment her on how she looks, find out if she is looking for a relationship. everyone goes out for a drink with workmates ask her on that basis. after a while come clean and tell her your true feelings then cross your fingers.
2007-09-20 02:26:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Buy her flowers and ask her out. How difficult can it be ?
Smile back, and flirt... That'd help too.
2007-09-21 11:48:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋