Please explain why you prefer men for sex/relationships, and also, what caused you to take the unorthodox route of being a heterosexual feminist?
2007-09-20 00:59:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Fraxinus: I find it hard to believe that you're not a lesbian, given your history of anti-sex-with-men posts. Even moreso is that in that same post you promote sex with women, calling it "mind-bending" -- mind-bending to whom? Other lesbians and bisexuals maybe. Many heterosexual women will tell you that sex with a woman does absolutely nothing for them, and that they'd rather prefer and enjoy something "real" inside them -- something that another woman can't do. Also, STD's are a two-way street in case you forgot. Women pass STD's on to men. Also, where do you think men get STD's from? Other women. That's a "chicken and the egg" argument you're making. Stop and think for once, and stop trying to see everything from your egocentric and femi-centric point of view.
2007-09-20 08:10:20 · update #1
Shakes head
2007-09-20 01:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 5⤋
Sex with a woman is natural, I didn't choose for this to appeal to me, it has since I went through puberty. I am of the opinion that this is not unorthodox. I have been married for 23 years and have not cheated on my wife. There have been a couple of temptations, but nothing worth ruining my marriage over. Hope this answers your question.
2016-05-19 01:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by esther 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you're one of the jack@sses spreading your vile lie tying equality with lesbianism? Question for you - how does it feel going through life without a brain straw man?
2007-09-23 20:14:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I thought the assumption that all feminists were lesbians died out in the 1970s, but I guess not. Many of the second-wave feminists were married, some with children, and had the "click" moment. When the National Organization for Women was founded in 1966, they were not the pro-gay civil rights organization they are now. I've heard they were a little nervous about that, as they were trying to be taken seriously. Yeah, things were different back then.
But there are feminists who are straight and feminists who are gay, nonfeminists who are straight and nonfeminists who are gay. There are pro-feminist males, both gay and straight. You have to let go of your assumptions formed by poor information.
2007-09-20 15:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by VeggieTart -- Let's Go Caps! 7 · 4⤊ 10⤋
I was born heterosexual, thus men are what I am physically attracted to. Gays and lesbians are born that way and that is why they are attracted to same sex partners. I would also like to add that my husband (a feminist himself) and I have a relationship based on deep love and respect for each others strengths.
I would also like to point out to you that although there are some feminists who are lesbians this is not a prerequisite to being a feminist. There are also a large number of men who identify as being feminist and although some may be homosexual there are also straight men who believe in equality. What I find intriguing is that you must constantly try and bait not only feminist but women in general. Your question are merely argumentative and insulting and really bring nothing to this forum other than aligning yourself further with the other male bullies. You claim to be in post secondary school yet your tactics remind me of primary school and the tactics used there to harass others.
2007-09-20 03:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 12⤊ 10⤋
I don't make a concious decision to prefer men over women. When a man walks past me with a great smelling cologne I react to it, when a woman walks past me I just think it smells nice. I didn't chose to take this route and I truely believe it is something that is not a choice. For example the touch of a man or a kiss from a man does more for me chemically that a woman. (Or maybe I just haven't met the right woman) JUst messing!!! I just don't get "turned on" by women the way I do with men.
2007-09-20 01:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by dmgoldsbo7 3 · 10⤊ 9⤋
I'm not a lesbian, and I don't label myself a feminist. I prefer sex with a man because that's how I'm wired.
I don't find women sexually attractive. They don't flip my wig or stoke my flame.
Are you a closet feminist? Is that why you post questions like this? Suppressed rage?
2007-09-20 01:37:46 · answer #7 · answered by pepper 7 · 12⤊ 6⤋
Because I was born this way!!
I know that sounds like a glib answer but it is the truth.
Since I was small, I knew I was different from the other feminists, I liked men!!! At first it felt shameful but I learned to accept it, and myself and became the person I am today. (ok... that is kinda a joke, thats how my friends explain being lesbians to people... they always knew, so i just turned it around)
My politics (being a feminist) have nothing to do with my sexuality. A woman can be pro-woman without being anti-man. Its all about equality, not saying that any gender is better, stronger, etc... than the other.
I am proud to be a feminist, but I am also proud of my other labels, wife, mother, activist, volunteer...and so on.
Take care
2007-09-20 01:41:18 · answer #8 · answered by hippiemommy 3 · 15⤊ 10⤋
One is either born gay or they’re not.
Sometimes people “experiment” with the same sex just to answer the question in their mind if they’d prefer same gender sex.
Speaking for myself only, I just prefer the way men are. They kiss different, they smell different, and they’re stronger (at least the kind of men I like) than me.
And it’s not “unorthodox” to be a heterosexual feminist. Most feminists are heterosexual.
2007-09-20 02:15:16 · answer #9 · answered by Rainbow 6 · 16⤊ 9⤋
Pepper - "I'm not a lesbian, and I don't label myself a feminist. I prefer sex with a man because that's how I'm wired. I don't find women sexually attractive. They don't flip my wig or stoke my flame."
I'll vote for you!
2007-09-20 03:08:03 · answer #10 · answered by celtish 3 · 8⤊ 6⤋