How can anyone turn their backs on their own kids?
Would you quit you job just to get back at your Ex, even if it hurt your kids?
There is no way to get out of paying child support - they hold both to an earning capability. It will just go onto the rears and will still have to be paid.
2007-09-20 00:46:30 · 12 answers · asked by FIREMAN F301 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Women do it, too. Frankly, it's disgusting. What's worse is when they have the unmitigated gull to complain about it! "They took my license!" "They put me in jail!" Heck, they should've FIXED you like a dog!
2007-09-20 00:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by trai 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Some people are like that. They think they're hurting the ex, when all it does is hurt the kids. My husband pays child support for his daughter ($800/month), and his ex still complains it's not enough, though-she said she wants to live like we do.....I say, get a job you lazy b#@%$! That's what irks me! We both work at good jobs, why should I pay her any additional? She has 5 kids with 3 different men, and gets more in child support in a month than I make working 40-50 hours a week! And she doesn't have to pay childcare, the kids are 12-17 years old! Sorry! Didn't mean to get off track. You're right, though, dead-beat dads suck!
2007-09-20 00:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by But Inside I'm Screaming 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The sad part is that alot of "dads" do this. It gives the good men that pay support to their children a bad name. And I know men that have quit jobs to get back at the ex!!
I also have a problem with the "dads" who are given ample time to spend with their children and don't! Who would not want to at least spend time with their kids? But fortunately kids with strong moms get along fine and their life turns out all right.
2007-09-20 00:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by Kathleen M 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im dealing with a difficulty now with a lifeless beat dad. i'm 5 weeks pregnant and he doesnt desire to pay attention something on the subject of the infant he deosnt choose me to even have it. So a lifeless beat dad is somebody who isnt taking care of their accountability. they do no longer look to be men and finally will discover out that their lacking out on something particular. If that newborn doesnt see the dad a minimum of two times each week thats a lifeless beat dad to me. If hee doesnt permit his self be commonly used to the newborn and practice the newborn love and enable them to renowned that they are going to continually be there for them and don't handle the mummy incorrect interior the approach then hes a stable dad. Take heed.
2016-10-19 04:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by genthner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no respect for dead beat dads. It's not the child's fault that you had them it's the parents. If you don't want to take care of them then leave your pants on. I would always take care of my child no matter what even if me and his mother could not stand each other. I made him and I will make dam sure he is taken care of even if it means me not eating or having a place to live. My son comes first no matter what..
2007-09-20 00:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by kenny_in_south_park 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
happened to me and honestly I find myself fortunate. He skipped town and I still am not really sure where he is. Which would be worse: no father figure OR an extremely crappy one? She is better off without it.
Unfortunately most men who have to pay child support use it against the mother and child. They use their rights to the child, through child support, as a way to manipulate.
2007-09-20 00:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I had to chase my ex down through 4 states to find him! Thing was, I was only getting support for my youngest and when we went to court, I asked them to lower the support!
2007-09-20 00:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by charks love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be going through something awful, sorry to hear that. I have an awesome Daddy, I wish everyone was so fortunate.
2007-09-20 00:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by ○•○•Cassie•○•○ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, there are some out there!
The other half has threatened to do the very the very same thing, plus stop payments on the house ...
i.e. "should I chose to follow his instructions and pack my bags and f.o." as he has soooo kindly told us to do on several occasions.
2007-09-20 00:57:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like Judge Judy says, "You picked him". Let's just hope he doesn't sire anymore offspring with run the risk of inheriting his poor intellect.
2007-09-20 00:54:26 · answer #10 · answered by thequeenofthesilverdollar 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋