i have read that people say who have ejaculation at early stage of intercouse , adive them ''stop-start'

Question

but exactly what does that mean. what to stop & what to start.
how does that help happy sex life.

Answer 1

stop for a moment, let the go-go juice calm down a little, then start again

Answer 2

When you feel like you are going to have an orgasm stop moving until that feeling goes away. After a minute start stroking again. You have to be in tune with your body to know when to stop. Practice, masturbation is a good way to practice.

Answer 3

Most sex therapists prescribe a series of exercises to enable the man to gain ejaculatory control. While the exercises are intended for men who suffer from premature ejaculation, other men can use the exercises to enhance their sex lives. By far the most common exercise is the so-called start-stop technique. While the technique varies, the purpose is to get the male accustomed to maintaining an erection for an extended period of time while gradually increasing sexual tolerance. In doing this exercise, the male obtains an erection through self-stimulation, or masturbation. After achieving an erection, he stops stimulating himself until he begins to lose his erection; at that point, he begins to stimulate himself again. Gradually, over a period of several weeks, he is able to stimulate himself for longer periods of time, eventually gaining ejaculatory control. In order for this technique to be successful, the male should avoid feeling discouraged if he ejaculates rapidly; instead, he should use his sexual responses to learn how to vary the technique in a way that most benefits him. Another variant, for example, is to stimulate the shaft and frenulum of the penis, exploring the glans more as control improves.

The male's partner is usually integrated into the exercises. She can stimulate her husband using the stop-start technique. When the male has achieved some level of ejaculatory control, he can insert his penis into his partner without thrusting. After his penis becomes accustomed to being inside his partner, thrusting can be gradually included, according to his abilities, using the stop-start technique. In less severe cases, the male might overcome his premature ejaculation early on, making exercises with his partner superfluous.

The male's partner plays an essential role in enabling him to overcome premature ejaculation. Without understanding and emotional support, the male is unlikely to obtain the level of relaxation required for sexual satisfaction. Both the male and his partner should communicate their feelings openly and with sensitivity. The male should learn to sexually satisfy his partner, orally or otherwise, while they work with him to overcome his premature ejaculation.

Answer 4

It means if you feel you're about to ***, slow down for a minute until you feel you're able to go on without cumming right then and there. I guess it takes practice...

I also wrote about premature ejaculation and how to prevent from it, some tips on your question as well... it's at my sex blog at http://DatCurious.com

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