if a person is insecure whether it be emotional or phyiscal.. this effects the way they love or how others love them???
~i do belive this but to a certain extent...sumtimes people just love others more than them selves..?? what do u think?
2007-09-19 23:35:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Insecurity is a mental issue manifested as an emotional issue. Altruism can also be disugised as selfishness when reciprocity is expected for what the altruistic considers a sacrafice. When in reality they are simply placing an emotional debt on the person reciving the altruistic actions.
To avoid all this, listen to the other person and never assume their needs. When they do vocalize their needs, that's an opportunity to show altruism!
2007-09-19 23:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by Pankration 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Being insecure does not mean that you can't give your heart fully to another and enjoy love. It may however lead you to settle for relationships that are less than perfect for fear of worthiness. Most people are insecure in one way or another about themselves.
2007-09-20 06:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by Teresa S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if a person has issues with themselves hates how they look hates who they are...it def can ruin relationships...cos they never feel comfortable..they might be overly jealous all the time...i def think so....but i think people do eventually get used to this..and then they can love other people and still hate themselves ...but i think its sad.
2007-09-20 06:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
A person can not truly love others until he loves himself. He can be a slave to others, but he will never truly love or be loved.
2007-09-20 06:40:32 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It does have an affect, it makes things that more complicated.
2007-09-20 06:42:54 · answer #5 · answered by joe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the second poster here, she is totally right and gets my vote!!!
You have to love yourself before you can love others!!!
So true, so true :) !!!!!!
2007-09-20 06:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋