I started a new school about 3 months ago, had friends for the first 2, but for some reason, they dont like me anymore. And not to mention, there's NO ONE else in this school to be friends with but them, it's really small...SO, my option is this. Stay in china and stay in this school for the rest of the year. OR, move to canada, my home, to finish out my year. I have NO friends in this school now, and it's killing me, it's just horrible. ANy ideas? Im in grade 9..
2007-09-19 21:42:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well since you're in the 9th grade, I have to ask, DO you have the option of moving? If YOU have this option as in this decision is yours to make then this might be an option. I say this as the school year just started and you do need friends. But I don't understand why you don't have any friends, or why you can't make any new friends. I do wish you the best in this and hope all goes well for you.
2007-09-19 22:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Problem with friends!!!
I too experienced it in my grade 8,9 but not 10.
I will tell u the reason:
In grade 8, I was too shy to talk with anyone. My classmates wanted to hide everything from me. so I thought to quit their and come to singapore. But for some reasons I had to go back to my previous school.
Later in Grade 9, I didn't talk to anyone unless they talk to me. Only talk, not chat. I went on concentrating on my studies. At this moment even teachers didn't support me. But with my parents encouragement, I walked towards the current.
And in Grade 10, I well prepared myself in Mathematics. And atleast for that, my classmates came to me. I told them how to solve the difficult problems. By the end of the year even though I didn't talk to them on the final day, they came to me with their slam books. On that day, I felt as if I won the battle.
So, I smell that UR case is somewhat equal to mine. So follow my method. Just keep concentrating on ur studies. U dont need anyone's help.
And if u want any help in solving mathematics problems, u can mail or IM me...
If u seem that this answer is worth of giving the best answer title, then why dont u go further and give me 10 points...........
2007-09-20 04:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow!! You sound exactly like me!!! I am in grade 9 and i had a LOT of friends but for some reason they dont like me anymore =( I still have some friends and i can move to this group but there are a few people who dont like me in that group. But anyway, if i was you i would move to canada!! I know exactly how you feel!! Good luck, and tell me what you chose to do!!
2007-09-20 04:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I guess if your able to move then I'd move. Otherwise try to make different friends at the current school. Get involved in other activities at school to meet new people....
2007-09-20 04:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by ?only?me? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes move otherwise if you dont care just stay and finish the school year
2007-09-20 04:51:40 · answer #5 · answered by boom 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sweetie i can't imagine your transition. i'd just move home.you'll have soooooooo many other things to tackle later in your life. enjoy your right now.
2007-09-20 04:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by mauikittie 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah......when your friends don't like you any more thats the thing to do .....move, run away.....after you do these things you'll fine that you can't run from you.....
2007-09-20 04:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by LITTLE_JOHN 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes....that was my gut reaction!!!
2007-09-20 04:45:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋