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It seems everytime something goes wrong for a woman, it is the mans fault. Half these relationship questions on here have something to do with a man getting blamed for some dumb stuff.

2007-09-19 21:38:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science Gender Studies

No the other half of the questions are about sex.
I have been married for 2 years (20 years old) been with my wife since we were 12. Never have had a problem or blamed each other for stuff. I get bored at work (work 3rd shift and have nothing to do) so I get on here and read all these questions and it seems to me the majority of the women think there problems are caused by men. Sure I know it's true in some cases, also vice versa. But the overwhelming majority says women do blame there problems on men. That is why I asked the question. I am glad I am one of the few guys that can say that I am not in a relationship where this happens. By no means was I taking a shot at women.

2007-09-20 17:37:12 · update #1

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Basically men would have to en masse stop accepting the blame. Too many men these days are self loathing and will accept whatever blame women lay on them because that is what they have been taught. That men are bad.

2007-09-19 21:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8 5

You answered the question (generalization actually) yourself: women will stop blaming men when men stop blaming their problems on women.

You said: "Half these relationship questions on here have something to do with a man getting blamed for some dumb stuff." Hmm, even though I'm a woman, logic would therefore point to the conclusion, that the other half of the relationship questions have something to do with a woman getting blamed for some dumb stuff.

Sounds like there's plenty blaming going around, starting with, you.

2007-09-20 08:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by edith clarke 7 · 1 3

It can only stop when men stop allowing themselves to be blamed for someone Else's mistake and tell the women who do this to take responsibility for their own mistakes. Just look real close at the answers here for example alot of questions asked by the women blame men for something. But when a woman is blamed for something the women come back and try to blame the men for being pigs and oppressors. It is called misdirection a common tactic employed against men to get them to give in,give up and give her what she wants.

2007-09-19 22:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by Chevalier 6 · 6 2

When enough men stop allowing it to happen. But, men can do this nicely and accountably with women who are worth that. Do you see the theme here? Complaining about women's bad behavior will inevitably lead to the conclusion that men need to stop accepting the bad behavior. There is no other repair.

2007-09-20 01:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4 1

As Happy said, when more men stop being brainwashed and adhering to mainstream feminist and misandrist propaganda that men are always to blame for everything. Nowadays, even a lot of men grow up brainwashed and foster a preconceived notion that men are always to blame and women are always saints.

We need more strong-willed men (and women) to know that both men and women are equally capable of doing wrong and right. It's not always the man's fault. We have to purge this man-hating propaganda from society.

2007-09-19 22:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 6 4

when men stop messing up. Only joking. Its always easier to blame someone else than to think the problems lies within yourself.

2007-09-19 21:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by leambi 5 · 6 1

I DO NOT blame anything on men NOTHING. when I do something STUPID i take FULL responsibility for MY mistakes. now would it be nice if everyone MEN & WOMEN do that?

P.S. When will people stop blaming ALL single mothers for what a few single mothers do? WELL!!!!

2007-09-20 07:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by Proud Mommy 6 · 3 3

When we bring back segrigation. You girls stay on mars and the men stay on earth. That way we never hear it again.

Not possible in other words.

BTW before some feminist throws a wobbly, ill reverse the planets for your senario if you are uncapable. You girls stay on earth and the men stay on mars. That way we never hear it again.

2007-09-19 22:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5 3

When pigs fly.

2007-09-20 04:37:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

When there are no more men left to blame.

2007-09-19 21:43:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 8 4

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