today sometime and i was wondering is it too late to move school? i hope it isnt and that a school will accept me halfway through my GCSE's but im not going back there even if it oes ruin my education. PLease tell me
2007-09-19 21:33:29 · 12 answers · asked by green_with_envy_01 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
The thing is i used to be her best friend we had a argument and now all my frineds are her friends as well and its 2 l8 to start hanging around wiv ovaz, every1 is turning against me and i care so much about my education but the thing is i know im not going to do well if i cant concentrate becasue shes always giving me dirty looks and bitchy comments. Threatining to kill me and spreading rumors about me.
2007-09-19 21:52:05 · update #1
Im in the UK by the way
2007-09-19 21:59:50 · update #2
I can understand you position. It not should not happen to a sincere person like you.
But, instead of refusing to go back to school, my bother, refuse to get bullied !
This would require a lot of courage & tactful handling , but these efforts would definitely pay off in the long run.
All the best !
2007-09-19 21:39:05 · answer #1 · answered by Smiling_Umesh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
11 isnt too late to move school if it is that bad. But you are only a few weeks into the term. Tell a teacher, or your parents, or someone......anyone but whatever you do dont keep it to yourself. Dont cut and run yet. It is early days so the staff can nip it in the bud (if they have anything about them)
But you must tell someone. Its the only way to make it stop. Dont try and go it alone. Being bullied is hell, I know, I was bullied too, thats how I know the only way to end it is to tell someone what is going on
2007-09-20 04:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by Big kid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear that.
I was once a bully in school.
i have caused pain, lost of confidence, shame....to people.
i regreted all of those but there's nothing i can do anymore.
Advices:
-Try to avoid reacting to their tauntings or stupid jokes. just go on.... don't even look at them.
-The more you don't mind them the more they lose interest cause your reactions make more attraction to the bullies.
-Be more with your friends protect each other.
-Try opening up to your parents. it would break their heart if they found out later.
- Try soing something about it first before you decide to switch schools
Good luck!
2007-09-20 04:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by jace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure where you live, but maybe you could try a charter school. Usually they're free, and offer independent study and/or High School GED. And, don't worry. One of these days the people who are bullying you will get what they have coming! Don't let 'em get you down! Really, they only bully because they feel so badly about THEMSELVES!
GOOD LUCK!
2007-09-20 04:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by blublond1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a wise thing to ruin your Education however the best option for u right now is to move to another school and prepare yourself for all the extra effort to catch up with all u have midded
2007-09-20 05:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by dicovi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are such strict laws for bullying in schools now since columbine and viginia tech and so on. it is important that you speak to your parents about these threats and have them go with you to speak to administration at the school. not only could you get into trouble for truancy but your parents could as well depending on the state in which you live. you have to decide now if a bully is going to make you run away or if you are going to face your problems head on. also, you can have your parents look into homeschooling curriculum at k12.com and see if financially you would qualify for free homeschooling in your area. usually you can transfer schools any time.
2007-09-20 04:57:11 · answer #6 · answered by christy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I think the best way to deal with bullies is by talking to authorities, they can help you. A person in 11th year is already an adult and shold be responsible for his/her actions. I wolod recomend that you take self deffense classes and when they come you will know how to defend yourself.
Good luck.
2007-09-20 04:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by ♂♥♀ & ♀♥♂ ∞! Love Oh Love ! ♫♥♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not quit under any circumstances .
Hon.....I went thru this non sense when I was younger ,about 4-5yrs
I was bullied A LOT
But you know what? I didn't quit , I persisted and that eventually made me a tougher person
Good luck:)
2007-09-20 04:41:26 · answer #8 · answered by Ms_Inquisitive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents should make it known to the principal that you are being bullied and where when and who is doing it. Make sure they are told in writing that they are responsible for keeping you safe while you are at school. If it is in writing, they are obligated to do something about it, at least in the U.S.
2007-09-20 04:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the bullies 1 at a time wait for them somewhere were they walk home and beat them with a stick, believe me this is the only language they know
2007-09-20 04:38:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋