Get over yourself.
I know that reads harsh but it is the only way to stop pitying yourself.
I have spent years with people who knew they were dying. Everyday was worse for them than it is for most. When they had suicidal thought they were something you took as urgent.
I don't think you or most people I answer are in that boat.
I think everyone here has something or some one worth living for, worth being happy because they are there.
For those people I talked about, I told them the same thing i will write for you here. You have opportunities. If you don't take them then this is it, and life will go on without you, but; will that be better for anyone you know? If the answer to this question is "No", then get over yourself and make the best of the opportunities life has placed before you.
I could have tried to put this a little more flowery but the fact is there may be someone out there who reads this and needs to read this answer this way.
Now, smile. I need it.
2007-09-20 10:23:12
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answered by LORD Z 7
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by looking around you and considering yourself lucky that you've got your health and lovely people around you like your family and friends. You have got a roof above your head and food on your table. What more could you ask for?
2007-09-20 03:44:48
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answer #2
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answered by Angelica 3
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motivate yourself to make someone else feel good. Afterward, you'll feel good enough that you won't care about (self-pity thought here).
2007-09-20 03:41:50
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answer #3
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answered by ? 5
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By thinking about other people who have it worse than you or something like that... or with confidence... or by just being very busy to the point that you can no longer think.
2007-09-20 22:12:13
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answered by Bunny Boiler 6
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thats easy.you think of all the people out there much worse of then you and how they are still trying and fightin and not wasten time with pity.
2007-09-20 03:42:30
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answer #5
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answered by Anonymous
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it takes 21 day to break a bad habit !!!!!!
start with saying things like
I like myself !!!
I'm a good person!!!
i love myself today!!!
the list can go on forever but you have an idea how to start!!!
2007-09-21 03:30:27
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answered by Anonymous
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It can be accomplished. Think positively..I know it sounds hard. I struggle with it myself.
2007-09-20 03:43:06
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answer #7
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answered by Lefty 7
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I cried because I had no shoes , then saw a man who had no legs.
2007-09-20 03:43:36
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answer #8
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answered by joe 6
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by involving urself in constructive jobs
2007-09-20 04:13:28
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answered by Anonymous
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Don't let mind rules.
Look at what we already have.
2007-09-20 05:24:53
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answered by † Iríšh † 7
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