There is this one guy I like but he's married (I know... I know) but just curious... When I first met him... I saw him wearing his wedding ring but not everyday.... Then when we I moved to his unit, I never saw him having it on at all... It's also strange cause he doesn't have any pictures of his wife in his office...or anything that can relate to his wife... He is a manager.... he doesn't have to carve woods or do carpentry so no reasons not to wear his ring? I was just wondering... if you were a married guy I should just think that married guys would happily demonstrate their comittment right? Anyway, just a question.... just wanted some opinions... thanks!~
2007-09-19 20:11:02 · 12 answers · asked by lovingyouforever 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yeah I never take it off. If you saw it once, and then never again it's cause he doesnt want you to know.
Did you say you moved into his unit? Do you mean you live with him now? And you don't know if he's married?
I think you need to have a long talk.
2007-09-19 20:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by rushmore223 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm female. When I was going with this guy and engaged to him he swore that he would wear his wedding ring, he just wanted to. So we got married and he wore it about a month, started a job working with electricity and I never saw that ring again. So you're right, some people don't wear it because of the job, some because the rest of the guys they hang around with don't, some even wear wedding rings when they aren't married. Used to be that to have high up jobs in a company you needed to be married so guys would take a picture with relatives from another state and say those were his wife and children...yeah, crazy huh? I would kind of wonder why you'd be checking his hand out daily. But maybe he wears his ring when he's around his kids, could be he's divorced and supporting his kids. I live in a tourist area (FL) and the joke here is that there is a tanning salon for guys who want to go without their rings so that part of the finger gets tanned. Rings aren't that important these days, and seems that most guys cheat anyway, however you don't want to get involved in that, it's bad form.
2007-09-19 20:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by sophieb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of it depends on the environment the guy was raised in, and (of course) the man's relationship to his wife.
I think I've worn my ring maybe a dozen times since I got married (and yes, I also have a desk job), but I'm no less committed to or in love with my wife than the guys I know who only takes his ring off to shower.
Why don't I? Partially because my dad never wore his except on special occassions. Now, he's a heavy machinery mechanic, so to see him wearing jewelry of any sort - rings, watches, necklaces, cufflinks - was totally out of the ordinary... nothing that could get caught in machinery. My maternal grandfather was a farmer, and was the same way. As much as I hate to admit it sometimes, I take after them in a lot of respects, and this is one of the habits that unconsciously emulate.
In my eyes - and my wife's as well - it comes down to the difference between the symbol and the thing. We know the things that it stands for - we trust each other, love each other, and are committed to each other - so why bother with the symbol? And if the people around us don't already know or are unobservent enough that they can't tell that we're a couple; well, that's *their* problem, isn't it?
2007-09-19 20:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by hogan.enterprises 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he and his wife have separated, or maybe it doesn't fit him as well as it did when he first got it so it makes him uncomfortable. It could be many reasons why he doesn't wear it anymore. If you know him well enough why not try asking him if he is still married. Don't fall for him if he is still with his wife, it will only turn out bad and you will hurt his wife badly and the karma for that wouldn't be worth it. Good luck. Just remember if he is willing to cheat on his wife he would be willing to cheat on you.
2007-09-19 20:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by Jenniferann88 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
particular I do. In my 3 hundred and sixty 5 days of being married I in user-friendly terms took my ring off as quickly as. i grow to be washing dishes and it saved coming off so I positioned it on a series around my neck till i grow to be finished. Then I positioned it back on my finger. Later, I have been given the hoop resized. considering then I easily have in no way taken it off. I easily have been married one 3 hundred and sixty 5 days and 6 months. i like my spouse and am proud to positioned on my ring as a logo of my love for the female who positioned it on my finger.
2016-10-19 04:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you moved into his unit with him, then he's not actually with his wife, right?
So why would he continue to wear the ring?
2007-09-19 20:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by leolady0765 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There are other and more reliable ways to find his marital status.May be ,he is an old hand at this game and is on the prowl for a person like you. be alert.
2007-09-19 20:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I sure do , its a sign of my love to my beautiful wife.
2007-09-19 20:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by IPFREELY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many don't wear it..but they call their wives'' stupid and idiot''..they are ashamed with this ring..but they are not ashamed to cheat
2007-09-19 20:21:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
where ever no good looking girl can see??? but on serious note in left hand index finger.
2007-09-19 20:24:07 · answer #10 · answered by abhivenom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋